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Sex hurts my gf

Me and my gf are having sex maybe once or twice a week, however shes finding it very painfull because of how tight she is, we go slow and try to make it work but it just doesnt happen shes in quite a bit of pain and has even cryed, shes wet so thats not the problem, and she dont really wanna go to the docs to talk about, shes not a virgin and was fine about 2 years ago
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your girlfriend could be on top so she has contrl over the depth  ect untill she is comfortable.
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It could be many things ... she could have gone a long time without penetration and therefore she is tight again, or you could just be big for her.  Every girl is different, just like guys.  There are some girls where 5 inches fills them up and some girls can take guys who are 10 inches or longer.  

Most men are between 5" and 6" in length and 0.75" and 1.5" in diameter.  If you are bigger than that and she is short, it may be painful.  Keep at it, go slow, and maybe try only partial penetration until she is stretched out enough.  Getting a dildo may help too.
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