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Hey this question is to females.I have been a bit nervous with relationships because sex.I only have one testicle because I had to have it removed and my penis isn't the biggest size either. Would this affect sex with you and does it matter to you that much?
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I very much agree with the last post. What you should do is look into some sexual aid books. They have so many and you can REALLY learn how to please a women. If you know what you're doing, the size of your penis is going to be totally irrelevent.
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1000392 tn?1294093912
Oh sweetheart... have you ever heard of the saying " it doesn't matter what size you are... only how you use it"?

To me, sounds like you're self conscious so sounds like you'd put more of an effort into it, which is wonderful.

Depends on the girl you decide to have relations with. Some are very into size but once you find a right girl for you, you won't have any issues.

Plus, did you know that most women experience orgasms by clitoral stimulation and not necessarily by penetration??? Very true!

Don't worry about it. The girl who'll have an issue with it, isn't the right girl for you.

Best of luck!
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The thing to remember is that a womans' vagina is most senstitive in the first 3rd, so small penis or big penis, you're still gonna be giving pleasure. besides, there are positions to help you 'go deeper'

and the testicle thing, nah, thats not a worry. like goldgoespop said, you arnt gonna infect us with something nasty cause you have one testicle.

Just keep smiling :)
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thankyou for responding! this helps bring my confidence up!
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If having one ball really bothers you, you can get a pretty realistic fake ball implanted (similar to women's breast implants, but much smaller!).
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You have nothing to be nervous about. I think that the majority of women who say they want big penises are porn stars and hoes. And the only reason porn stars go on about it is probably to help sell penis enlarging products.

Even in most pornos if the dude has a giant **** he's only putting a few inches inside the girl because he can't put all of it in there without it hurting her. My husband is not huge and he's the best partner I've ever had. We read a book in Hastings one night that said the normal length for a caucasion (sp) is 4 inches.

Don't stress about your size. Normal women don't care how big you are.
You only have one ball? Big deal! You had to have it removed, we understand stuff like that happens. It could give you a great nickname tho like Ace ;)

And last but not least.. if your with someone that has any problems about how your built then she's not the person for you. The one your meant to be with will love you, flaws and all. =)
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Nah, man.  I don't know why guys always think they need a huge penis.
I'm not really down with that, cos the longer it is the more it hurts when it's all the way in.

But that's just me.

And the testicle thing, forget about it.  It's not like you have a disease that's gonna infect us. Relax, and enjoy.
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