Yes using a condom is a smarter way to go besides abstinance. Try to also get on birth control incase a condom fails.
Yes using a condom is safer. You still should speak with your parents. Your mother may want to put you on birth control so that you don't end up pregnant if you aren't already. You can go speak with someone at a health clinic yourself if you have questions and are afraid to go to your parents, which I still say is the best thing for you to do.
When you get on birth control (you need to do that anyhow) you should still use condoms. You may end up with a disease or infection that you may not be able to get rid of.
You need to ask yourself why are you engaging in sexual activity at such a young age. Is likely that you are not going to stop so please always, always, always use protection, If you dont become responsible of your body now, you will regret it.
Ok well last night i convinced my boyfriend to wear a condom so he did.....is that a better and safer way to go??
Thought you might needs some advice from someone around your age. I am 15 years and I also have a boyfriend. We have been dating for about 4 1/2 months. I choose to not have sex before I am married becaus of my religion. Which is Christianity. I know plenty and plenty of girls that are having sex at your age. Yes people do it. But it certainly is not a good thing. I really think that you and your boyfriend she sit down and talk about some tings-
1. Are you ready to have a baby?
2. Are you ready to give up being a child and raise one yourself?
3. Are you ready to ge ta job flipping burgers for the rest of your life to support your child? Because chances are you if you get pregnant you won't be able to attend college let alone finish highschool.
4. If pregnancy does occur what are you going to do about it? (i.e. abortion, adoption)
And if you guys are deciding to still have sex take all possible precausions. Go to your mom or a free clinic and ask about birth control. Also buy condoms and always use them.
And yes fingering is a good alternative, yer it can still lead to sex. Just be careful and think about what you are doing to your body. Are you really ready for this?
Thanks for the advice. Im trying to stop but sex feels sooooo good so it hard for me to stop..should i just have my bf finger me??
way too young to have sex use protection
If you are having normal periods, and the sex was right in between the periods, you could very well be pregnant. Get a pregnancy test from the Dollar Store, and test when you expect your next period. If you don't test any earlier than it says to test on the box, it should be an accurate result. If you *are* pregnant, you do truly need to talk to your mom. If you are not, would you please seriously think about what you are doing to yourself, to have sex so young? It is such a bad idea on so many levels, and later you'll look back and wish that was one thing about your life that you could have changed.