Teen sexual health

[JackVale]

Hey guys,
As i lost my virginity a few months ago,and have a happy sex life,with women ranging between 15-32,as I'm only 17,and had an unprotected sex about 3 times,but didnt ***,anything i shud be worried abt?

[Dalubaba]

Yes, if you are really interested in enhancing your career and having a good life, you can transmute your sexual energy into mental energy with few breathing  exercises.Abdominal breathing, circulating sexual urge around microcosmic orbit, Abdominal breathing combined with contraction of perineal (sp?)region. There are many websites advocating proper use of sexual energy. It is not a suppression of sexual energy, it is transmutation of energy.The real strength will help you to make your life full of joy and prosperity.

[JackVale]

Thank you so much,but i would like to say that sometimes,when I sleep with older women,I feel like I'm used as I have a big willy at 17, and their husbands are usually old,and have kids and stuff.Really thank you for your advice.
Anything more i should consider?

[AnnieBrooke]

Another thing, and it is interesting because I have been seeing some discussion of this in the United States in blogs and online, is that young men seem to be fooled into thinking that they are obliged to define whether they are masculine or not solely by whether they are having a lot of sex.  A guy went crazy and shot some people because he felt like women were turning him down for sex, and one thoughtful writer on the subject said, our society's message that men are only defined by their sex life is wrong.  Men should not feel that they are seen as less of a man if they are not screwing around.  There are many other (and more important) ways to define success as a man, besides having a lot of sex and bragging about it.  I saw in one of your earlier posts that you were concerned about not having sex and hoping to have it soon, and now you have had it and seem pleased and define your life as happy due to it, and I am wondering how much of this is anxiety driven.  The real goal is to fall in love and to have a complete relationship, everyone wants that.  I guess some shallow men feel that sleeping with lots of women with no commitment is their life goal, but it is not as satisfying.  Try for the first, it will make you happier.

Good luck.  Protect yourself and be concerned for the women you sleep with, you are not protecting them either if you have sex without condoms.

[Dalubaba]

Doing too much sex with so many different persons does not mean that you are enjoying sex. Actually you are wasting your energy. To get full benefit of sexual activity is to get real satisfaction. This can be achieved only with loving sexual activity with your beloved one.You are wasting your energy and putting your self in greater risk of STD.

[AnnieBrooke]

1.  Even if you do not ejaculate, you could still get your partner pregnant if you have unprotected sex.  The pre-ejaculatory fluid excreted by the Cowper's Gland can carry sperm into the woman's body if you have ejaculated within the past several hours before getting the next erection, since sperm can live in your urethra a while.

2.  STDs can be passed by unprotected sexual contact.  Some STDs can be cured, others cannot, and of course, some are life-threatening.  Herpes and genital warts can also be spread this way, believe me, you don't want those.

3.  If you have had sex with that many women in that short of a time, it is presumably safe to say you are not having sex out of a serious romantic or committed relationship.  Do the women you sleep with a favor, and don't go after someone too naive to realize you only want her for her body.  Stay with more experienced women who might only want you for the same reason.  It is not very kind to hurt others, and a fifteen-year old might be crying because she realizes she has been used.  Part of being a good lover is being a considerate man, not just a horndog boy.