I appreciate your response but I'm wondering whether this is a genuine concern or ocd. I assume there is a chance but I just can't work out whether I'm being ocd and irrational or actually I have a valid reason to be concerned.
I thought i did everything to be safe and I think I have am I obsessing over nothing. Any advice appreciated thanks
Yea Were very close and I trust her very much so pregnancy definetely isn't a worry.
Your extra information is appreciated, since you said "we started unprotected sex". As long as she was/is on "the pill", you should be fine, if you can trust that she is truly on "the pill"?
I am grateful but my question is a bit different to these answers if u know what I mean :)
I only stopped using condons after she was tested and she also was on the pill so pregnancy isn't an issue. She tested all clear before we had sex unprotected so is it safe to assume I'm worrying for no reason or is it possible she could have had an std and then fought it off before her test but long enough to pass it onto me
Thanks
There is a thin line between OCD and cautiousness, specially with potential to get STD. So to be overcautious is quite in order. I am 84 and I do get a label of OCD. It does keep me safe from unnecessary gambles.
Not just for STDs but also to avoid pregnancies, use a condom for all intercourse.