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Thoughts are objects.
In sexual performance, major component is mental. In our forum, we have hardly given any attention to hypnosis, visualization, or affirmations. Thoughts can be be kept with us as objects. If we write down what type of sex, and pleasure we want- visualize the successful perforce and write it on a paper and keep it with you and you may even ask your partner to do so, you have better chance of performing well. If your write down negative thoughts and shred the paper, that thought will disappear.This suggestion is based on the following research published in natural news letter.
Western dualistic culture, it is assumed that thoughts cannot be treated as material objects; however, language is replete with metaphorical analogies suggesting otherwise. In the research reported here, we examined whether objectifying thoughts can influence whether the thoughts are used in subsequent evaluations. In Experiment 1, participants wrote about what they either liked or disliked about their bodies. Then, the paper on which they wrote their thoughts was either ripped up and tossed in the trash or kept and checked for errors. When participants physically discarded a representation of their thoughts, they mentally discarded them as well, using them less in forming judgments than did participants who retained a representation of their thoughts. Experiment 2 replicated this finding and also showed that people relied on their thoughts more when they physically kept them in a safe place—putting their thoughts in their pockets—than when they discarded them. A final study revealed that these effects were stronger when the action was performed physically rather than merely imagined.
(one can always write good affirmations and keep with them.) One can write new year resolutions and keep them in their purses.
Western dualistic culture, it is assumed that thoughts cannot be treated as material objects; however, language is replete with metaphorical analogies suggesting otherwise. In the research reported here, we examined whether objectifying thoughts can influence whether the thoughts are used in subsequent evaluations. In Experiment 1, participants wrote about what they either liked or disliked about their bodies. Then, the paper on which they wrote their thoughts was either ripped up and tossed in the trash or kept and checked for errors. When participants physically discarded a representation of their thoughts, they mentally discarded them as well, using them less in forming judgments than did participants who retained a representation of their thoughts. Experiment 2 replicated this finding and also showed that people relied on their thoughts more when they physically kept them in a safe place—putting their thoughts in their pockets—than when they discarded them. A final study revealed that these effects were stronger when the action was performed physically rather than merely imagined.
(one can always write good affirmations and keep with them.) One can write new year resolutions and keep them in their purses.
COMMUNITY LEADER
Thank you for your response.Your study and experience is very wide. I know you thinking is rational. I thought probably one can find a way through hypnosis or such similar modalities of treatment. I had posted seperately so as to get a frank opinion. Thank you for your correct guidelines. Members are rightly guided. thanks.
Hi D, The first part if a lot of men did this, the writing down and thinking about, the first thing that would happen when they got in bed with there women is premiture ejeculation, sex should be a spoontaneous act for about 95% of men and just let things happen, it best if men read about ways of making love them carry that into the bedroom.
See its the same thing again, its only a small% of men who could do that, whta your putting forward is an advaced way to sex far beyond what most perceive as a normal sex life, but if things dont go the way we want then we can try again, but we dont need to write it down, from what your saying then love making becomes a script.
Sorry but thats my thoughts.
Good Luck
Seasons greetings
See its the same thing again, its only a small% of men who could do that, whta your putting forward is an advaced way to sex far beyond what most perceive as a normal sex life, but if things dont go the way we want then we can try again, but we dont need to write it down, from what your saying then love making becomes a script.
Sorry but thats my thoughts.
Good Luck
Seasons greetings
COMMUNITY LEADER
Similar technique;
One website mentioned 10 types or journal. In one type it mentions that write down the first word crossing your mind when you wake up in the morning and shred it and throw it in a waste paper basket. This will have a positive effect in your day. These suggestions appear to be far-fetched. Experimenting new things is always inspiring even if we fail in the experiment.
One website mentioned 10 types or journal. In one type it mentions that write down the first word crossing your mind when you wake up in the morning and shred it and throw it in a waste paper basket. This will have a positive effect in your day. These suggestions appear to be far-fetched. Experimenting new things is always inspiring even if we fail in the experiment.
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