I've been dealing with this off and on since about October, I was free of all sexual activity for 9 months, I was tested at the gyno for everything under the sun, no STD's, pap smear came back fine, was even tested for herpes to see if this was how it was presenting itself, negative result.
I've had a chronic inflamation and redness on the outside of my vagina, literally, since October. I think I've seen my gyno more in the last couple of months than I have my entire life. I'm 23, like I said, I've been tested for STD's, I've had a pap, everything is normal but the redness refuses to go away. I've been treated like a yeast infection, I've used antibiotics, I've used Difulican, I've used creams, I've used stereoid/anti fungal creams, somethings make it a little better but ultimately, it comes back. I feel like I'm losing my mind, IDK what to do.
There is never any real pain, just discomfort because I can tell it's red/irritated, never hurts when I pee. I've not changed soaps, detergent, etc.
I've been trying to pay close attention to what may bring it on the worse, I've noticed a week before my period or so, it gets really red, even the veins in my vagina are REALLY blue and one is even puffy, like its full of blood or something. I've also noticed, I have trouble passing bowel movements, have my entire life, the only time it's easy is after I've drank a lot for a weekend, but I've noticed that after I've drank a lot and then have a rather large bowel movement, not only does my anus/anus hole get chaffed/red hurt, my vagina seems to too, not necessarily chaff but gets very red.
Is there anything I can do? Something I'm missing? Something the doctor is missing? He said he literally doesn't know what to do and maybe this inflamation will just go away on it's own, since there is no real health risk and it's not a disease he doesn't seem too concerned but I honestly can't imagine anyone going down there with it looking like this and I'm a young, single girl that would like to at some point, have a relationship with someone.
Is there anyway it could be a bladder infection? My urine is causing this? A kidney infection? What about hemroids? Etc.
I am just at a loss of what to do anymore, someone please help.