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What can i do to fix my sexual problem

i had a very bad experience with sex in the past. i got a sudden urge back last year at the beginning. now it has dropped to where i don't ask him anymore and its lack of sexual pleasure.  what causes that and how could i spice it up?
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he say that he don't want me back but its hard trying to let go when he really want to let go. I mean i hate this so much because there is such time we had before this break up. I don't want to get over him but he wants to get over me. I don't know how to fel or how to act around him. its confusing
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Give each other some space. After two people break up, they do one of two things:
1) They idolize everything about the other person and want them back so bad.
2) They find the other person incredibly annoying.

Either way, you need to give each other some space.
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me and my ex broke up. i still love him very much. i never cheated on him but he was a very sexual person. i didnt tell him that i wanted him for sex. we broke up and now im in tears. he say its not my fault but i think so. what should i do. he want to be best friends but its hard trying to.
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Maybe it's time to seek therapy for what happened in the past so you can deal with it.
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me and my ex just broke up for a couple days now baceause of lack of sexual activity and aggressivenes. How can i prevent the problem from happening inthe future?
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Communicate with each other. Tell your partner what you like during sex and ask your partner to tell you what brings them pleasure, too.
There is a lot of literature out there about how to spice up a sex life and work out any intimacy problems. If things are that bad, you might want to consider buying some to see if they help.
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