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What happend to my orgasms?

Im a 28yr old female, Ive always had a great sex life and sometimes even overly turned on. My husband and I have been married for about four months. Our sex was amazing, two weeks after marriage sex didn't happen and when it did i either I had to beg him or I felt like he was giving me pity sex...when we do have sex he gets off within mins and Im just getting turned on...its so frustrating...need some suggestions.
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1614914 tn?1325560559
I know for him its got to be stress...I love sex, but not with someone whos not into it. However he's just giving up and going down bad paths, I'm trying to help but nothing I've done so far helps....
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Hi,perhaps you need to liven up your sex life, I know its only a short time after marrage, try differant rooms, differnt positions, try serving his dinner naked.
If not just sit him down and see what his problem is in the sex department, see if you can work things out together.
You say that the sex was good and now you dont want him anymore all because of sex, but craving it.
Last thing could be a sex theropist for both of you.
Good Luck
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1614914 tn?1325560559
He did have a lot of stress but it has all been dealt with. Im worried through all the stress that he has lost intrest in me completely. Also when we first got together he told me I was the biggest girl hes ever been with so thats always in my head, That is not to say I am fat by any means, he is just used to being with the stick thin girls, I am athletic. Im frustrated to the point I dont want to have sex with him anymore, but Im craving sex so bad...
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Does your husband have a lot of stress in his life, maybe work stress? That may be the problem. Have the two of you sat down to talk about what's going on? Can he make sure you're satisfied before intercourse, or, is that the only way you can have an orgasm?
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