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Womens sexual health
My boyfriend and I recently had sex. Not intercourse but I let him finger me. He did it a little hard with 4 fingers and there was some pain close to the end but I didn't think it was a big deal. The next day I noticed discomfort sitting a certain way and when I went to the bathroom (urinate). It's been almost a week and it still hurts. I looked with a hand mirror and the area is red and looks like it might be a bit swolen. It feels bumpy and I'm very nervous. I put petroleum jelly on it to see if it helps. I am unsure if this is nothing or if it is herpes or something else. My boyfriend was a virgin so I don't think there was a chance of him being infectious but is there anyone with an idea of what this might be and a way to help?
Yeah HockeyShark is right.. take easy. Your supposed to enjoy it not regret it. Try one or two fingers and make sure his hands are clean and nails trimmed. You can get cut up and then an infeaction. Also, guide him on what makes you feel good and you have to be lubricated. Weather is naturally or KY jelly. Completey relax and have your Vagina lubricated while he slowing insets one finger at a time. Jammimg his four fingers in there while dry cant feel pleasurable.. you want stimulation.
Hard with 4 Fingers? No wonder why you are sore. Give it some time to heal. you will be fine. Next time try 2 fingers at most, make sure you are wet enough, and guide him through what feels good..
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