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bad sex repelling smell from man to woman
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my girlfriend has a strange disease,I will explain you the situation we are together since 3 years but we never had actual sex,2 years before we started having little sex but i never broke her verginity as she asked me to do this after marraige so i just rub my penis on her 1 inch vegina, we were pretty happy with this but after a gap of one year when i approached her as i had to leave the country for some reason, she complaint that i have a strange bad smell which forces her to hate sex and feel like vomiting,now when we sit normal there is no problem but even if make slight intention of sexuall advance she get that smell.u know this is creating fights between us and many problems,she is suffering very badly and our relation also.
I eat what ever she cooks and she is also used to the same food as we both are from same country,she never had this problem one year back but after a gap of one year i left her alone she complains about this problem,and believe me I am very hyginic,we still live in a diffrent city but now i visit her once in a month and first time she complaint about this i thought time will heal the problem but on my second visit also same thing happened,when i was in india and she was in saudi last year she complaint that she dont get any sexual feeling when she talk to me on phone,i thought it will be ok when i see her but the problem is worse,i am sure its a psycological problem,with no solution we have a feeling that we have a bad eye of someone on our relation you know when someone is jealous with you and you face a loss I think this could be the problem.just pray for our relation nothing elese i can say.
my girlfriend has a strange disease,I will explain you the situation we are together since 3 years but we never had actual sex,2 years before we started having little sex but i never broke her verginity as she asked me to do this after marraige so i just rub my penis on her 1 inch vegina, we were pretty happy with this but after a gap of one year when i approached her as i had to leave the country for some reason, she complaint that i have a strange bad smell which forces her to hate sex and feel like vomiting,now when we sit normal there is no problem but even if make slight intention of sexuall advance she get that smell.u know this is creating fights between us and many problems,she is suffering very badly and our relation also.
I eat what ever she cooks and she is also used to the same food as we both are from same country,she never had this problem one year back but after a gap of one year i left her alone she complains about this problem,and believe me I am very hyginic,we still live in a diffrent city but now i visit her once in a month and first time she complaint about this i thought time will heal the problem but on my second visit also same thing happened,when i was in india and she was in saudi last year she complaint that she dont get any sexual feeling when she talk to me on phone,i thought it will be ok when i see her but the problem is worse,i am sure its a psycological problem,with no solution we have a feeling that we have a bad eye of someone on our relation you know when someone is jealous with you and you face a loss I think this could be the problem.just pray for our relation nothing elese i can say.
hi dear,
i will try your suggestions may be it works,you know she never had this problem one year back but now what to say,lets hope for the best.
regards
Faisal
i will try your suggestions may be it works,you know she never had this problem one year back but now what to say,lets hope for the best.
regards
Faisal
I don't believe your problem has anything to do with spicy food.
However,I do think eskercurve may have hit on a good idea, which is to use a scented lotion or oil of some kind that your girlfriend finds pleasing. You only need to use it prior to sex. Then if it bothers you, wash it off.
However,I do think eskercurve may have hit on a good idea, which is to use a scented lotion or oil of some kind that your girlfriend finds pleasing. You only need to use it prior to sex. Then if it bothers you, wash it off.
I hate to sound rude, but that system is abhorrent. That said though, the fact you two love each other is great!
There is something that I, as an American who has worked with many Indians in my life, can tell that maybe Indians cannot tell so much, but many Americans are afraid to say for fear of sounding racist. Personally, I think the food and the spices that are used in many Indian foods cause a smell to emanate from people who eat it often. This may be the source of the "bad smell". After all, they say "you are what you eat" and if you eat many spicy foods then your body will change accordingly, and I do not know for certain, but that could be the source.
Another simpler solution may be to use scented lotion near your private areas and in your armpits and chest.
In all though, good luck!
There is something that I, as an American who has worked with many Indians in my life, can tell that maybe Indians cannot tell so much, but many Americans are afraid to say for fear of sounding racist. Personally, I think the food and the spices that are used in many Indian foods cause a smell to emanate from people who eat it often. This may be the source of the "bad smell". After all, they say "you are what you eat" and if you eat many spicy foods then your body will change accordingly, and I do not know for certain, but that could be the source.
Another simpler solution may be to use scented lotion near your private areas and in your armpits and chest.
In all though, good luck!
no my friend,
we belong to a culture where you get married first on papers and then doo all the arrangemt for the girl and then get her to your house with formal party or reception,i fell in love with her from india and she was in saudi then i came to saudi convinced her father then we got married on papers but we were not allowed to have sex,my wife always arranged for a foreplay that too secretly whenever i use to go to her house,for some reason i had to go back to india and then came back to meet her again same way but this she complaint about this smell.i will formally take her to my house in november but this problem between us is decreasing my love.i am worried for her and i know she is not lying she vomitted in my presence because of that smell,dear she is honest and loving we are legally married and we had no intensions to leave each other
we belong to a culture where you get married first on papers and then doo all the arrangemt for the girl and then get her to your house with formal party or reception,i fell in love with her from india and she was in saudi then i came to saudi convinced her father then we got married on papers but we were not allowed to have sex,my wife always arranged for a foreplay that too secretly whenever i use to go to her house,for some reason i had to go back to india and then came back to meet her again same way but this she complaint about this smell.i will formally take her to my house in november but this problem between us is decreasing my love.i am worried for her and i know she is not lying she vomitted in my presence because of that smell,dear she is honest and loving we are legally married and we had no intensions to leave each other
1) Sex is essential for a healthy relationship.
2) Waiting 3 years to have sex is wayyy too long. Get over her.
3) If she says you have a "bad smell" which forces her to hate sex, she has got to be hiding something. She wouldn't not have sex for three years just because of a smell. She would have told you from the start.
4) You are in a long distance relationship now.
I think you seriously have to re-evaluate your relationship. There's plenty of fish in the ocean, as it were. If you had a "bad smell" others would notice and tell you. Also, have you had sex with other women? What do they say?
2) Waiting 3 years to have sex is wayyy too long. Get over her.
3) If she says you have a "bad smell" which forces her to hate sex, she has got to be hiding something. She wouldn't not have sex for three years just because of a smell. She would have told you from the start.
4) You are in a long distance relationship now.
I think you seriously have to re-evaluate your relationship. There's plenty of fish in the ocean, as it were. If you had a "bad smell" others would notice and tell you. Also, have you had sex with other women? What do they say?
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