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hymen not broken yet..

hi.. im a 19 year old.. and im still a virgin.... me and my bf are ina a steady relationship and we do mess around every once ina awhile... yet we still havent gone thru the intercourse...

sometimes when we are messing around he gets too close to my vaginal entrance.. n when he tries to push in just a little.. it hurs me... but he doesnt go thru or anything..... i was just wondering what could it be? bacause i've heard that when you do it for your first time.. its like an uncomfortable.. not really bad pain...and it hurst me so i dont want to keep going anymore... what do you think it is that is hurting me bad when we do that?
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Just face it, its gonna hurt the first time. For some it might not but for alot of women it hurts quite a lot. My first time was when  I was 18, and it hurt so bad. Try being on top, as that worked better for me.. then you have control of how deep and how fast it goes in... best wishes to ya!
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Don't forget to use birth control or you might get pregnant even if does not brake it but does ejacuate on the entrance of your vagina.
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well to answer your question that reason it hurts cause your hymen hasnt been broken. and if you do dont it it well be broken and you well bleed(but not alot) BUT AFTER THAT HYMEN is broken you should have a good preasure and enjoy it but you should di it when your really comfortable and ready hope this help you  
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