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losing virginity

My boyfriend and I have been visiting each other now.I was a virgin while I met him but he he said we need to make love , I refuse and told him that he must wait until I'm ready so he said he won't break me but he did put his penis in my vagina , I did not feel any pain or any excitement be cause I keep pushing him away when I feel like it going deeper, does that mean I'm no longer a virgin? ?
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Just that he keep persuading me that he didnt break me ...I don't what to do now I'm stressed coz at my village we got tested every month end..I don't know if he is saying a truth or not
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OK, if where you live, the definition of a virgin is that she has an intact hymen, that is the definition.  Maybe he broke you or maybe he didn't, or maybe you broke naturally in some other way.  It's hard to believe you have to be examined every month, what if someone breaks her hymen herself?  Not very fair.  Anyway, I would try not to worry.  It is possible that you just got a little stretched.
And I sure wouldn't let the boyfriend pressure me for sex this way any more.  Unprotected contact between erect penis and vagina can get you pregnant even if he does not ejaculate and even if your hymen is not broken.
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Well, yes, virginity is generally defined in most cultures as not yet having had a penis in your vagina.  That does suggest you are no longer a virgin, by that definition.  I have never heard a definition of virginity that requires pain, excitement, nor breakage.  I think your boyfriend was very selfish.  Will he stand by you if you get pregnant or if he gave you a sexually-transmitted disease?  Shame on him for being insistent in the face of you saying no.
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