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no desire for my husband
ive been married 15 yrs and have 4 kids, yet I have no desire to be with my husband. But get really turned on by another man. How can I get that way with my husband.
Get away from the kids, or encourage him to take all four of them somewhere for the whole day. Get a break entirely from the 24/7 responsibility. Your love for him is probably still there, just somewhat being suppressed by the constant responsibility for the kids.
My guess would be your intimacy has become a routine, a chore, and a pattern that never varies making it a boring activity in your mind. Because of that possibility, your fantasy with another mate fills the excitement you've lost with your husband. 4 kids to take care of can also make intimacy a chore. You need to communicate more on ways to spice up your time with your husband.
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