Ask your partner to use his tongue first for a pretty long time, at your clitoris, thereafter P-V may start.I hope you will get success. Please try and write your experience.
My women gets 2 or 3 Vaginl orgasam by me. Its also the matter of Man control plus different styles. In some styles i have very good control. so ask your boyfriend try all possible styles and find the one he has more control over. I easily go over one hour sex by changing styles. Openup yourself to your boyfriend physically and let him to do all the positions..
Sometimes shyness can cause no orgasm. You need to discover yourself and find out what YOU like. I would suggest that you masturbate. Just use a few fingers and find areas that you find very sensitive and pleasurable. That way, when it comes time to you having sex with your man, you know exactly what you like and what turns you on. It might be your man, but even the smallest penis can pleasure a woman. Try new sex positions that stimulate your clitoris. Also, your G-Sopt (the area of the vagina that causes a vaginal orgasm) might not be as sensitive as most other women. A vaginal orgasm is diffcult to achieve, but not impossible. Try gently touching yourself when you are having sex. It can help you get warmed up.
its a mental state...if u r feeling from inside....then obviously u will get a good orgasm....try to figure it out with your boy friend.....first u should have a good foreplay...then try new sex positions....try something new...which gives maximum rubbing to clit...i think missionary position is most appropriate for this..try this....and do reply