recum and sperm AFTER urination: a very detailed question

[pikachu101]

Hi there

I'm 19 years told awould like some answers for this. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years in a very commited relationship and are very happy. A few days ago we decided to have sex for the first time, I wasn't comfortable with telling my parents so we decided instead of birthcontrol we would try a condom. Well, during sex he pulled out for a second to check on the condom since we have always heard stories about them breaking and we found out that, well, it broke. We sat down and did some research only to find opinions and no professional answers about pregnancy. I did find some facts here and there. So here are the facts of what happened: I know the he wasn't inside me for very long while the condom was broken; there was NO ejaculation; there MAY HAVE BEEN precum (assuming so...), the last time he masterbated was before we had sex, it was the night before; He urinated once or twice between the time he ejaculated the night before we had sex and the time we did have sex.

We were both virgins and we are planning on getting married so I'm not worried about STDs and I understand that it was a stupid mistake and we should have waited. We kind of wanted our first time to be romantic not scary. I have been searching everywhere for an actual percentage of me getting pregnant and have found NOTHING. What are my chances of getting pregnant with the factors included is the the question I need answered. I'm probably going to tell my parents soon, in the mean time I'm just trying to figure out the possibility of me getting pregnant since I have NO idea when I get my next period, it just kind of comes every 27-25 days I guess.

If you can get back to me soon about this question that would be great!

Thanks

[cutegirl20]

hi there i completely understand your situation and i too have been through the same situation.. every fertile couple has 25% chances of conceiving any time....  in your case u people used a condom and no ejaculation that's god which reduces the chances.. the probability of precum being there is 100% correct coz it's actually always present as a lubrication and as soon as males are aroused and may contain sperms.. though there is seriously a huge debate on the fact whether precum has sperms or not.. though chances of conceiving just by precum are very slim.. still just to be safe calculate your days whether you were in your fertile days or not usually 12th to 15th days of the cycle..( the fertile day is only the 14th or 15th day but you need to take a few more extra days because the life  of a sperm is a minimum of 3 days and maximum of 7 days while an ovum only 24hrs or at the max 30hrs).. if you weren't there are absolutely no chances that you'll be pregnant.. and even if u were the chances are very very slim... i really hope this helps.. good luck and all the best for your future.. god bless you..

[confusedlady23]

hi there. There is always that possibility that you could get prego. but, everything you stated sounds like the chances of you being pregnant are slim to none.

I wouldnt stress too much about it. kudo's to you guys for waiting and taking all the necessary steps to be protected.