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what to do if your boyfriends penis is to big
have him start slow and use his fingers. let him finger you and slowly add more fingers. this will get you more used to the size of his penis. make sure when he does decide it's time to stick it in he goes slow and your relaxed
... have him penetrate you slowly and gently and use copious amounts of lubricant.
Babys also come out of you because you're giving birth. Not having sex. The body is prepared to give birth, it's what it is designed for. The physical state a woman is in during birth is different than when she is aroused and having sex. Women can also have incredible pain during a birth BECAUSE there's a huge thing being shot out of them. This is why some women take drugs (epidural) during labor to lessen the pain.
If your boyfriend's penis is too large and you're not enjoing sex there's a few options and explanations.
Firstly it is possible that he's just too large for you and your bodies are incompatible. I mean, how large are we talking about here? This happens occasionally where no matter what you do or try you'll always find his size to be uncomfortable. Don't believe what you see or read in porn or magazines. Sometimes our bodies just don't line up.
Are you sufficiently aroused and lubricated during sex? If you're not then you could have a "dry" problem. More foreplay could "open" you up to it more, make you wetter, and give you an easier time. If you're not lubricating enough you could try some store bought lubricants like KY to reduce the friction.
Are you truly comfortable with him and are you ready to have sex with him? If you're not sufficiently relaxed and aroused by him you could be nervous and that might cause you to tense up. If you're tense, you'll tend to clench your muscles down there and that will make penetration more difficult.
Some women find that if they're on top they have an easier time being with a man with a large penis because it allows them to set the pace and the depth themselves which prevents the man from going too fast or too deep that would make it uncomfortable.
Go slow, make sure you're relaxed, aroused, and well lubricated. Sometimes experimenting with different styles or positions can help and you can sort of work this out together until you find something thats comfortable and works for you.
If your boyfriend's penis is too large and you're not enjoing sex there's a few options and explanations.
Firstly it is possible that he's just too large for you and your bodies are incompatible. I mean, how large are we talking about here? This happens occasionally where no matter what you do or try you'll always find his size to be uncomfortable. Don't believe what you see or read in porn or magazines. Sometimes our bodies just don't line up.
Are you sufficiently aroused and lubricated during sex? If you're not then you could have a "dry" problem. More foreplay could "open" you up to it more, make you wetter, and give you an easier time. If you're not lubricating enough you could try some store bought lubricants like KY to reduce the friction.
Are you truly comfortable with him and are you ready to have sex with him? If you're not sufficiently relaxed and aroused by him you could be nervous and that might cause you to tense up. If you're tense, you'll tend to clench your muscles down there and that will make penetration more difficult.
Some women find that if they're on top they have an easier time being with a man with a large penis because it allows them to set the pace and the depth themselves which prevents the man from going too fast or too deep that would make it uncomfortable.
Go slow, make sure you're relaxed, aroused, and well lubricated. Sometimes experimenting with different styles or positions can help and you can sort of work this out together until you find something thats comfortable and works for you.
There's NO such thing as "too big" women have 10 pound 21 inch long babies coming out of their vagina. I know NO man that has a penis THAT big. Sorry.
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