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5194883 tn?1365662658

trust issue - guys help me out/

Hi! I'm female. steady with my boyfriend for almost a year now. Here is my problem, mpre like what's making me feel uncomfortable. Just  couple of times ago before we have s*x , he'll ask me to give him a bl*wj*b. When I do that it tastes like condom. And the fact that I didn't see him at least 4 days ago makes me think that "Maybe he's having s*x with somebody else". So how does this condom "lub" work. Would it really stay around your p*nis for a long time? I don't want to think negatively about this thing. Do you use condom while masterbating by yourself too? But condoms are expensive.. So why does his p*nis taste like the lubricant from a condom??

I'm getting upset about this. because it happend twice already.
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134578 tn?1693250592
It actually sounds like a good reason to be suspicious, although if you are saying the lube from a condom would have had to stay on his skin for 4 days, that seems unusually long for it to stick around.  Wouldn't he have taken at least two or three showers in 4 days?  But if you think it might not have been 4 days, then I would be concerned.  
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5194883 tn?1365662658
i talked to him about it. he said he doesn't know. what that means. i guess he's not cleaning himself properly. when i asked him about it he was a bit upset but I needed to ask him because i am the one who's freaking out. I should ask him again in a couple of weeks. although it feels like he'll never cheat on me. i hve this unusual feeling because we dont have any means of communication other  than their home phone number.
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