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Bi-Curious & Married?

I am Bi-Curious and have told my husband this, but i only told him when he had been drinking because I was really embarrised about it, and now he keeps bringing it up. And I have always known one of his fantasies is of me with another woman. But everytime he talks about it i try and change the subject because well I'm not comfortable with talking to him about it. He has said it is ok with him if i experiment with someone, but at the same time he would like to watch. I dont know I'm just not sure what to do. i want to but I am scared to and I'm afraid he might join in and i really dont want  another woman touching him because i am the only one he has ever been with and hes the only one I've ever been with. Am I being unfair in my thinking that i dont want another woman touching him, even though hes ok with me having sex JUST ONCE with a woman? Can someone please give me some advice on this?
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523042 tn?1212177895
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
Hi.

You've expressed your feelings very well in this post. So I'm wondering why you don't express them to your husband? Once he hears your reasons for not wanting to be sexual with another woman while he's there, hopefully, he'll understand. If he doesn't, THEN you have a problem! But let's not get ahead of ourselves. Tell him what you've told me.

And if you decide not to pursue experimenting with another woman, it sounds like you have life-long material for a hot sexual fantasy. In private. Just for you. Dr. J
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honestly i wouldnt even entertain the thought of bringing another woman in to my marriage. because once the option is on the table hes a man hes going to take it and run. and your going to regret it no matter how curious you are. if its something you really want to try do it in secret or dont do it at all. id rather live with the guilt that i experimented one time than i had to watch my husband touch another woman. id rather be selfish on this one.
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You can have a thought without acting on it !
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