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I need some answers or talk about thing going on in my life

I am a 33 going on 34 female and I have been having problems with my husband all thing related and I am so stressed out I have depression already and it getting worst. My husband and I met 14 years ago everything was going good we dated for 8 years and no it wasn't the best we had our ups and downs. then we got married 5 years ago my mom died and I felt he wasn't there for me like he should have been then the hurricane hit and we moved to Weatherford Tx everything was going fine he had a good job was getting paid good money even his boss got him a car that he paying on. Then the worst happened I found out that he was cheating on me he claims that he ONLY kissed her. But that not what I feel the things he tries to do makes me wonder he never has done this before but now he all about wanting to have anal sex with me I am not that type of girl..... I tell him all the time that it hurt that I don't like and it just turns me off. he doesn't listen and now he tries to force and I set up so he can't do it or I just end up leaving the room and then he gets upset. He always wants sex but he can't stay hard he goes soft when he sticks it in he doesn't have a problem playing with himself but he lacks to ***. He is an Alcoholic and now he quit his job any advice I love my husband and I don't want to give up on him but it getting to that point where I am thinking of a divorce
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363281 tn?1590104173
Hello~I am so sorry you are going through all this. The best advice I can give is to either see a marriage counselor, or, if things get worse, threaten to leave him, even if it is just for a short while, maybe the shock of hearing that will cause him to snap out of his cheating and nasty ways of treating you. As it stands now, you really don't have a marriage, and his treatments toward you are definitely not the way a husband treats hi wife.

Do you have any trusted friends you can talk to? Are you a member of a church?

I hope things work out for you both.
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well my advice  is if you  don't  like anal sex he should respect  that  as a real man you can forces  any woman if they don't like something period. I think  you also need more  sex pleasure from a real man. thanks
Avatar universal
well my advice  is if you  don't  like anal sex he should respect  that  as a real man you can forces  any woman if they don't like something period. I think  you also need more  sex pleasure from a real man. thanks

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