going to parents

[annoymus]

my mom knows i had sex she found out but she still don't allow me to have a bf and she maybe thinks i haven't done it since that time but now i have a boyfriend and we had sex we used a condom but i want birth control. i just don't know how to even begin to tell her this she would just start askin a whole bunch of questions...... is there anyway to jus ask her without getting her hype or is there a way i can get it on my own?

[hartmens_gurl]

yea. dude you can totatlie get it without her concent you just got to find the nearest plan parenthood clinic next to you and go for visit and its totatlie free,and thats not the only thing you can get for free you can also get free condoms, also pregnancy tests too so i think that you should really think about that....it doesnt matter how old you are either.

[annoymus]

umm i am 16 going on 17 not 13 or 14

[marra315]

no one told her to go behind her mums back we all said its possibleto get it  but best to speak to mom about it . i agree with you totally on the age thing and and dont think she should be having sex but she will if she wants to and better to advise to be safe than sorry !

[April2]

That's why we have parents growing up, to guide and protect us from making foolish choices because what teenager or young child doesn't make foolish choices? You all don't even know how old this girl is. She could be 13 or 14 years old. What 14 year old child is ready to have sex? As much as they want to think they're all grown up, it is a very grown up decision with grown up reprecusions including std's and pregnancy not to mention the devestation that these girls will feel when they give their all to a boy and then he later dumps her.
I don't think it's right to tell any young teen to lie and deceive their parents. There's a reason the mom doesn't want her to date yet and I bet it's not because she just wants to be mean. That being said, yes this girl can still go behind her parents back and see this boy. Someday she will realize that her parents were just trying to protect her but some people have to learn things the hard way.
I wish you the best.

[marra315]

it depends where you live and your age as if you need parental concent to get birth control , in uk its free and can be given without parents permission but i think you should speak to your mum and get her help as if you are adult enough to have sex then you should be able to talk about the responibillities . you are a growing young lady as she should be able to accept you want to be responsible with your life x x

[Kim1989]

taking birth control can help in other problems like helping to regulate you period, making a period less painful, and help to clear acne to some degree. it doesnt work for everyone but those can be some of the benifits.

aproach you mother and express your want for birth control. like James 199 said "would she reather you get impregnanted or be protected?" not to mention you can tell her that just because you would be on them or want them, doesnt always mean your having sex. but its good to be protected for whenever you do.

[james199]

getting it on your own would mean your probably using a general kind of birth controll not meant for your particular needs (not a girl but i know a little bit, not everyone can use the same kind i don't think),

as for asking your mom, you could always talk like a plead for help, not begging or anything and if worse cames to worse, you can argue to your mom, would she rather you get impregnated or be protected?

[llamaboy]

im pretty sure you can get them at the teen clinics for free not 100% sure but i think so