What should I do?

[frank_123]

I am almost 16 years old and am a male and still at high school and I used to suffer quite seriously from depression I never let anyone know or told a doctor but as a result of that I was very secluded and enjoyed being by myself which didnt make me the most popular kid in school, when I came up to high school I made a couple of friends and eventually I became happy but now Im beginning to sever my emotional ties with my friends and am seeing less and less of them. I can actually feel myself getting sadder and cant stop this progression I plan to consult my gp but without my parents knowledge when I turn 16 in a couple of weeks but I just dont know what to do? As far as I can tell nothing has triggered it it is just happening and theres nothing I can do to stop it. Advice would be appreciated :D

[SFmonsterdark]

Hey Frank,
Definitely letting your gp know is the way to go. He or she will be able to diagnose you the best.  I work with the high school population and sometimes just talking about these issues helps, other times it can be a chemical imbalance.  Consider youth groups or activities outside of school for support as well. There are many great organizations that focus on coming along side teens and are empathetic to your experiences as a teenager.

[ku111]

I agree with AngieWay14.  You are very smart to realize what is going on and ask for help.  My son is just getting ready to graduate and he has a few friends but has always just kinda stayed to himself.  He always has said it was hard to find people that didn't drink, do drugs, bully people, or didn't get into all the drama of high school.  The few friends he does have are good ones and he likes it that way.  They like and respect him for who he is.  Time goes by so very fast and soon you will be on to the next phase of your life.  I think your age is a difficult and confusing one.  Lots of pressure on you guys.  My son said the other day, "the best thing about graduating is that I now have a voice, can speak up, think for myself and now it is my turn to change the world".  It sounds like you have a pretty good handle on this and are headed in the right direction.  I hope you get the help you want and need.  It's your time to shine-shine bright!  

[AngieWay14]

Hi, I understand how you feel. I too am im highschool and am not the most popular. Im really glad that youre not afraid to be yourself. Since you realize things arent right, it is very smart of you to tell your doctor. Maybe, you should also let your parents know. That way, you wouldnt even have to wait 2 weeks.

There is probably something bothering you that you dont think would. It could be something simple and probably is. No matter what it is, I know you can pull out of it cuz you already have once before. Best of luckand feel free to message me.