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1103328 tn?1257873567

17 and my 3 c-section

hi my name is alicia i am consern i am 17 i have 2 babies and well i am scared i dnt belive in abortions and well i am pergnent with my 3 baby and on april 9 of 2009 i had my second c-section and well i am pergnent again the doctor who diliverd my son said i have a thin uterus would i be able to have a nother c-section if u can help me that would be wounderfull thank you alicia
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1131409 tn?1260219674
Im so sorry to hear that.
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jeez after reading these posts.. i m surprised that where have i spent my life lol.. these kids know way more than  I know and I am 23. WOW!
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964860 tn?1264888861
No you are not correct. My PARTNER and I live together with our children. He works and I study. How dare you just assume?! I have been with my partner 5 years now and we have no intention of separating any time soon. It's people with opinions like you that make other people feel like ****! I would appreciate it if you kept to yourself in the future.
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924332 tn?1284573918
Oh so sorry for your loss!!
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1103328 tn?1257873567
thank you i no my babies need me i just hope later in life i can have another baby
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358455 tn?1277433619
NOBODY should be happy about that. shame on them if they are. i just started reading this post and i am so very sorry for your loss. keep your head up, your children need you to.
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1103328 tn?1257873567
well no one has to worrie i lost my baby girl
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Just wait a couple more years.. you are probably getting help from your mom/aunt or someone right now, am I correct? 3 children when you are under 20 is crazy. Like someone said in another post( or maybe it was this one? I don't know I read it earlier today) there's a BIG chance that if you have children this early you'll eventually end up being a single parent. I'm not saying this will be your case but it happens on a lot of cases. good luck.  
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924332 tn?1284573918
Thats ok. IT may be your pregnancy hormones. Make you more sensitve. I know i'm pregnant and i can go off like nothing, lol.

Well my sister had 4 kids, one naturally and 3 c sections and she is fine. They don't recommend more that 3 c sections so you really need to try to take care of yourself. Reason bieng is that kills your nerves their and then having so many. Wish you lots of luck!!
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1103328 tn?1257873567
lol i no i didnt see that question
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1103328 tn?1257873567
omg thnk u i am scred now i dnt no wut to do now
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1006035 tn?1485575897
I understand your issues with BC because i hate the stuff too. Have you thought about getting your tubes tied? Most doctors don't recommend getting a hysterectomy until you are at least 28 because of your hormones. I don't know when you had your first child, but it sounds like you were pretty young. Having 3 children in such a short amount of time has got to be very difficult for anyone. I watched my own birth mother fall apart because all 5 of her children were less than 2 years apart, each. I hope you have a lot of extra help because this isn't going to be easy!

I know this might sounds scary, but one of my friend's mother had a c-section for all 7 of her children. During her last pregnancy the baby kicked a hole straight through her uterus and she had to have an emergency hysterectomy. I hope this doesn't happen to you, but it could. I would do everything I could if i were you to make sure you don't need another c-section.
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924332 tn?1284573918
Sorry hun, good luck with you pregnancy happy and healthy 9 months ahead. I think you jumped the gun on healtherlyn22, she was answering the other young lady who said she has been with her boyfriend for 11 months and was not using any kind of contraceptive and was asking if she may be pregnant.
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363110 tn?1340920419
hi! I am not a teen anymore, Just a little background I'm 23 and on baby #2. My first is 15mo old and has down syndrome. He's a wonderful lil boy. I'm due next month w/baby boy #2.... I've been married over 4 yrs since we were 18 but we began to date at 16...

A question>

How far along are you now?

MOST doctors will NOT allow a VBAC if a woman has had 2 csections and is pregnant again less than 18mo after the last baby. Most dr's want 18mo between pregnancies so the uterus can heal completely.
You run a higher risk of rupture where your uterus can split open if you go into labor and try to deliver naturally.

I hope that answers your question. my first son was born Csection and this baby will be csection also since they're only gonna be 15 1/2mo apart or so.

Also... the rules for a surgical procedure like tying your tubes or something are 3 babies or be 25 I think.

If I were you I would NOT get my uterus removed because you never know if you'll want more babies when your older, however... you can get your tubes clipped and tied. it can always be undone later on in life. I plan on getting an IUD after this lil guy is born, and yes he was planned. :)

TTYL ladies, and send me a private message if you want to talk or have questions that I might be able to answer.
Cindie
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take an hpt. IF you're not pregnant GET ON B/C AND USE CONDOMS. you will eventually end up pregnant if you're not already. the pull out method is NOT NOT NOT b/c.
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Hi, im 16 and havent been using contraceptives with my long term boyfriend for a while. I know it sounds like a cliche but the whole 11 months ive never gotten pregnant so i thought fu** it im not going to. But now a week and ahalf a fter my last period im bleeding slightly and have a brown/blacky discharge. Could i be pregannt? Did any of you have these symptoms? I havent had any cramps..xx
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1103328 tn?1257873567
thank you all i am doing everything i can do and i just met mr.right and well ya thanks again
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376148 tn?1309899577
im also allergic to latex....i used condoms thou..the non latex kind..i know there more expensive but worth it if you dont want babyss..lol...i had my first baby at 16 also and i am now on my 2 ( im 21) so a lil older then you but i know its still hard..as long as thoes babies are taking care of i dont think anyone on here has the right to tell you that its crazy....i was also on b.c at 16 when i got pregnant so it dont always work..thoes babyes are meant to be here...i know it and you know it..which is why things are working out for the better right! Good luck and i wouldnt get your tubes done yet...maby get an iud put in or something until later..you never know who you will meet later on in life!! :)
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546319 tn?1261636005
umm hun..i know exactly how u feel..i am 19yrs old and i am on my 4th pregnancy with my 5th child(i had twins)..but u know what hun..u are taking care of those kids that is all that matters..i was a single mother for awhile..and then i met the right guy(the father of the baby i am carrying) and we are married now..but hun keep doing a good job at being a mom..but ask ur doctor if u can have a csection or a vbac..and some doctors wont tie ur tubes..im fighting with my doctors office to get mine done..but also hunny what alot of ppl dont know is..im allergic to latex too..i used the 72hour plan B pill and i got twins out of it..and this baby i am carrying is a birth control pill baby..
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1103328 tn?1257873567
but the one thing u should no is that i am a single mom and i have been doing this since i was 15 and my kids love me no matter wut i have a roof over there heads and the stomach's are full and there happy so dnt think i am off to a bad start i am going to collage in January  so tell me that i am doing a bad job or that i am off to a bad start ok i no how to do it  
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what b/c did you use? have you tired one of the iuds? patch? ring? shot?

where are you from? you may be able to find the laws on voluntary hysterectomies and what age you can have your tubes tied, ovaries removed and all that. i've read that most doctors will not perform a hysterectomy unless medically necessary but will tie tubes. answers i've been reading vary from having at least 2-3 babies with age not mattering, at least 21-25 with or without kids and 21-25 with at least 2-3 babies.
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964860 tn?1264888861
I'm kinda offended by your post. I had two babies at 17 and they are fine. I'm 19 now and pregnant with my third. I dont think it makes you mad to have 3 babies at 17 as long as she is looking after them well and is giving them the best life she can.
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634745 tn?1256844310
there are condoms that arnt latex and i very much doubt that a doctor will remove your uterus at 17, it will cause a hell of a lot of health problems, even people with cancer of the uterus dont have a hysterectomy unless its the last option
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1103328 tn?1257873567
ok thnk u
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