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I NEED HELP!

hey im erika.and i was wondering if i could get sum help please.i'd appreciate it so much!!!
okay im only 15.
n my boyfriend came over a couple weeks ago and we were layin on my bed.no having sex but simply jus cuddling
we had clothes on but i was wearing shorts.and like*i kno this is personal but i need to kno*he unzippered his pants and well yea.then he got on top of me and i felt his(u know)and like he was kinda rubbin on me.so i heard sumwhere tht u can get prego while being a virgin if tha sperm gets inside of u.and he told me that like he came(cummed a lil bit)
so i would like to kno of there was a possiblily if he could of came(cumm)inside of me while i was wearing shorts and underwear.i kno this is wierd and dumb but i cnt talk about it to anyone else so i need to know jus wondering.some please help me.i'd appreciate it so much!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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681897 tn?1226612190
if there was any contact between his penis and your clitorus/vaginal area and he came, even without putting it in you, there is a chace, small though it maybe, but a chance you could be pregnant. my cousin got pregnant the same way, kind of. she was at her BFs sweet 16 and gave him a lap dance. things went a lil too far and clothes came of, but they never had intercourse but he came and it got around her vaginal area and it got her pregnant. so if i were you, i would def. get a test.
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342988 tn?1299782356
joy is right, but it is a very unlikely chance,  the life of sperm usually stops once it hits the air.

i would not worry about being pregnant because it would be very hard to get pregnant with what you were doing.
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376148 tn?1309899577
Wow joy i never knew that!! Very interesting!! Ha and i thought i knew everything there was to know about sex..lol...
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Actually it is a common misconception that you cannot get pregnant when you have clothes on. You can. Sperm is microscopic and can swim through the fibers of clothing. Especially very thin fibers (jeans might be more difficult).

Chances are, though, you're not pregnant. Just remember that abstinence is the ONLY way you won't get pregnant.
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i have a question. Did he move your shorts to the side? did his penis touch ur skin? if he cam on top of you lips down there, then ther is a chance of pregnancy. if he rubbed it on your snatch on top of your shorts, then you cant get preggo. hope that helps. Good luck and when u are ready to lose ur virginity plz use a condom.
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since you did not have sex and your clothes were on i would have to say no you can not get pregnant even though he was rubbing on you.  so you have nothing to worry about.
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yes you can get pregnant on your first time....but thats if you have sex.....you did not and are not pregnant. you said he rubbed on you while you had your clothes on.
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