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I NEED help!!!!

I had sex on December 6th and again the 28th with my boyfriend. I wanted to be sure I didn't get a UTI, so I went home not long afterward both times and it took about an hour to get home. They were his first two times, but my 3rd and 4th. When I got home on the 28th I immediately went to the bathroom. I noticed these things that looked like a ball of spaghetti. It looked like sperm, they moved or appeared to at least, but I only saw them on the bottom of the water due to the light making a shadow appear. I don't think it was sperm, but idk, could it have been? they're like microscopic cells, so idk. My boobs are kinda sore, I've had cloudy urine. recently the "sperm" stopped and it's been on and off in the recent past, I've been going to the bathroom a lot more. I started crying tonight when I was talking to one of my friends and he had some pretty bad news, but I normally wouldn't have cried over it!?!? I cried in a couple movies I wouldn't have normally cried in a few days ago. I've taken 3 pregnancy tests and they were all negative...I know it's too early to test if anything happened on the 28th...so, is it too early to have these symptoms due to pregnancy or are my tests wrong? Everyone I've talked to and read reviews on has said the test was really accurate. I don't want my parents knowing until I know for sure, so I have a friend that can get them for me and I just pay her back for it. I also had a period on Dec. 19th, but it only lasted like 3-4 days when they usually last 6-7 days at least. I haven't had one for January yet, but it's not time yet...but I have had some brown "blood" or discharge one and it had a very little bit of blood in it...any ideas on what this could be? it wasn't much blood at all. it lasted about a day if that. I've also experienced some cramping...I have one test left from the last time she got me some tests, so I'm going to wait and see if I don't have my period for January...what are your opinions, comments, or advice/input? keep it positive please! She got me four tests and 3 turned out negative.
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I would go to a doctor or clinic to get a pregnancy test done there.
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Still nothing.
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You could test now and it would be more accurate. If the test comes out negative but you still don't get your period after a little more time I would go to a doctor to get a blood test.
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I should've started my period on the 9th. I was ovulating around the 28th.
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Hi there! My first bit of advice would be to just try to relax. The more you stress over it the worse it will be. Stress can cause periods to be late and it can also make you think that you are having many symptoms of pregnancy when you are really just freaking yourself out. Trust me I have been there. Having unprotected sex is very risky especially if it is around when you ovulate. Do you know when your usual ovulation is and also when is your next period due/are they regular? Save your last test until closer to your period at least. When you went to the bathroom that stuff was probably just discharge. After sex if a guy ejaculates inside of you it can leak out and other than that it was probably normal discharge. Unless it is odorous or you have any pain/discomfort/itching when you get it I wouldn't be concerned about that. Overall I think you just need to try to stay calm and just wait to test when it would be most accurate!
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might I mention neither of these times were protected.
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