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945248 tn?1245650582

idk wat to do

well look wat the deal is im 15 years old i have been goin with my boyfriend for a year and 3 months and at one point i thought i was pregnant but i think it was just premenstrual symptoms. But me and my boyfriend been lookin at children names and stuff  and i told my parents that i am sexual active and stuff. they were not mad they were just surprised i guess.But his parents are like if you get her knocked up u will take care of her and the baby.and how they dont want grand parents before 40 and stuff and now it like i now im young but i was actually getting excited of being pregnant.Like i really want to get pregnant even though i know its going to be hard and i just bout to get into high skool and stuff . And my last period was july 9th -13th and i had sex on unprotected sex on july19th and i went on firstrespnse.com and did this ovulation calculator and it was talking about my fertile days and i did some thinkin i had unprotected sex on my fertile days and is it a higher possibility that i could be pregnant? even though my boyfriend does drink and smoke even though i found out that can lower thier sperm count. is it still possible????
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494640 tn?1262737989
So teen pregnancy concerns is not for all advice for teens and pregnancy
so if i am 15 and feel like i want a baby i carnt come here for advice or if i am 18 and trying for a baby i carnt come here for advice?? but if i am 15 and purposly get pregnant then i can come and get advice....
I think 15 is very young and you should have a childhood yourself first i wish i had even though i have no children yet (anxiosly trying) i lived alone at 15 i had to work i wish i could of gone to collage and university.but if you do need advice and are adament i think you deserve advice like with vitamins but it is on a persons own back if the give information on when is best toconcive as you are very young and when i have kids if my 15 yr old daughter came on here and women was advising her i would go mental but saying that you can find it with a click of a button on the net.....

so basically all i am saying id everyone deserves support..... i mean if she carnt *** here were else can she go...

Im do not want an argument or any conflict just my opinion

oh and as for swine flu life must go on you carnt live ur life around it :)

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634745 tn?1256844310
and another thing to add to heatherlynns comment is swine flu
although the media said its ok to conceive now it obviously isnt,
pregnant women are more likely to get swine flu
which can cause complications, theres a woman whos pregnant and had to go to a hospital in a different country and her lungs and heart are hooked to a macheine to make them work
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this forum is not intended for the discussions on how to get pregnant. it is solely for those who think they may already be pregnant or are pregnant. so please don't ask for advice on how to get pregnant because your post will be deleted.

now....getting pregnant right now would not be a good idea and not just because of your age. (even though that is a HUGE factor) do you watch the news, cnn or follow stocks or anything financial? have you heard talk about the economy? now if you would get pregnant you and your boyfriend would need to get jobs in order to support your child. do you know how hard it is to get a job? (aside from a fast food joint that  pays MAYBE $7.25/hour which is NOT enough to support a child....no where near enough) how would you finish school? do you have child care lined up or a baby sitter? and again it goes back to...how will you pay for it? would you expect your parents or you bfs  parents to foot the bills for you, your bf and YOUR child? you REALLY need to think about a lot of things. insurance, housing, money, baby sitters/child care (which child care averages about 1200/month) , a vehicle, doctors appointments (which kids have a LOT of doctors appointments their first few years of life..), neccessities for the baby (which trust me that is a lot..i mean a whole whole whole lot).
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you should not be trying to conceive at 15.

youve been thought you were pregnant last month and so why have you continued to have unprotected sex. anytime you have unprotected sex you can get pregnant

your very very young. enjoy being young. having a baby is very hard work
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634745 tn?1256844310
yes
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