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Hi, im a 13 year old boy and my gf and I recently did some bad things. She came over to my house and we touched and i think i may have gotten some pre-*** on my hands before i fingered her... Though she is on birth control pills. She took a test today and her 19 year old sister took it and said it was positive. But didnt show her until around 15 mins later. Then she took one herself and it was negative. She just called me and told me, but i thought it was impossible because we didnt actually to (it) thought she asked me to and i refused. Once again, she is on the pills and had two different answers. First +, second -. Im extremely scared because i play two sports and have my hole life ahead of me. And not prepared for a kid. Im so scared that im hitting my head on walls and lashing out. And im constantly in tears. Im so terrified that i dont know what to do. Please help me Im feeling sick and am once again balling. I dont know what to do. Any help is helpful. maybe abortion possibilities?

Thanks to anyone who comes to my rescue. Once again, we're both 13 almost 14
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She is not pregnant. You can not get pregnant by fingering, Not even if there is sperm on your hand. To be clear 100% certain she is not pregnant. Her sister is messing with you. I would suggest 2 things, 1. You need to get more educated about sex. You are making an adult decision with adult consequences so be responsible and be informed. Talk to your doctor or another health care professional. 2. If you choose to have sex, use condoms. You should always use a backup form of birth control, just in case one fails.

So breathe. It's all good.
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Thank you so much. We are not planning to have sex anytime soon or anything like that. It was a one time thing.
Again. Thank you so much.
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One more thing, we dont want to tell our parents about it at all. So what your saying is, theres no chance of her being pregnant and we can just completely forget about it? as long as she gets her period
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We dont want to tell our parents. Can we just forget about this whole thing as long as we wait it out for her period?( had her period last wednesday, three days before (it).)
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No chance what so ever.  She is young and sounds like she is scared and stressed this could cause her period to be late, light, or not come at all. But she is for certain not pregnant.
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thanks so much
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She sometimes complains of stomach pain, I read that it might help to go to the doctors for stomach pain. She might be given a pregnancy test through blood there?
Or is it not necessary being the only reason is for a pregnancy test?
Thank you so much.
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Could be PMS, urinary tract infection, or something else. If it is bothering her, she should go to the doctor. They won't give her a pregnancy test because she did not have unprotected sex and there for is at no risk of being pregnant.
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Omgosh. If you are not ready for a kid, don't do any SEXUAL activities. You are way to young to be doing anything anyways! Geez enjoy being a kid!
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