QUESTION!!! QUESTION!!

[nenita12]

WHEN U HAVE SEX N BECOME PREGNANT . WHAT FORM OF METHODS CAN U TAKE OR DO TO NOT BE PREGNANT,??

[shelbymo2010]

Honey other than abortion (i take it you dont want to have one from the "thats not abortion" comment) really the only other choice is to go through with the pregnancy and give the baby up for adoption. in my PERSONAL opinion abortion is not the way to go and there are many people out there who would be happy to adopt your baby.

[overopiates]

@heather.I just reread what I said2u.I didnt mean to come off so blunt.Heres the thing that was my problem.U said"kill ur baby".Thats not cool2say+different people  have different opinioms on when a fetus becomes a baby most say when they r able to live on there own and thay includes DRS. THANKS AT AROUND6-7MONTHS ALONG.at.the earliest becaus those little ones r hooked up2machines(as well as her needing therapy/physiciatric help because thats because thats NOT necessarily true AT all)I have a2+1/2year old son my only1 had him@27.@almost16got pregnant the1st time I had sex w/protection.I was rushed2the abortion clinic confused/out of it w/o even being told where I was going by my BF dad.He gave me valiums b4 we left he said they would just calm me down no clue they were drugs.Got there+I was so out of it.Next thing I know they gave me vaium too(the clinic)dont remember but I got an abortion.I was never asked etc.Anyway I was a kid I try/dont dwell on it.At17 almost18I had a tubal pregnancy,had2have another DNC2remove the fetus.There were things that although difficult but IM 99.9%OK W/IT.Please just dont say things like"killing u baby'THATS SO VERY INSENSITVE,A MIND GAME+A GUILT TRIP.Clearly u believe PRO-LIFE REGAURDLESS.Ever1is intitiled to there opinion bUt WE ALL HAVE DIFFERENT1so keep it to urself unless we ask.1last thing.Ur.not correct about abortions being so dangerous that so many of women r NOT ABLE2CONCIEVE UNLESS U DO IT AT HOME W/HANGER OR SOMETHIND .When done correctly/leagally/steralized facility there VERY SAFE.I have known MANY woman who had abortions and EVERY SINGLE1OF THEM HAS HEALTY,HAPPY KIDS.I knew a girl who had4/5abortions(Dont get me wrong thats rediculous)I am told she has3very smart,amzing kids.PLEASE.TRY2KEEP AN OPENED MIND Heather

[overopiates]

There r no other ways to not be pregnant anymore without giving birth besides abortion.Im not really sure what kind of answer u r looking for

[overopiates]

Sweetie what's not abortion?
Btw Heather its not cool to push personal beliefs on others(saying killing the baby it not a baby yet and there r many different beliefs on a fetus and when it is considered a baby that's why late term abortions r illegal).Also I don't think she was suggesting to illegally abort the pregnancy.Also u should check ur facts about infertility as its not some huge worry when the procedure is done correctly.
I was simply saying to you nenita that a legal abortion done n a steralized environment is the only safe choice.

[nenita12]

thats not abortion

[overopiates]

LEGAL ABORTION

[heatherw26]

Self abortion is dangerous. If any of the baby or anything else is left over inside of you it can lead to infection and death.

Go to a doctor. Talk about the consequences that can happen with abortion (It is possible for you to end up infertile from it) and the cost. Then talk to your parents. You will need them because if you do kill the baby it will be (or at least should be) an extremely emotionally draining thing to go through. You may even need some professional psychiatric help afterward. If you can't talk to your parents about it, then you're not ready to do it and if you can't openly communicate with your parents you probably shouldn't be having sex either.