could she be pregnant?

[jakefos]

So this will probably be long but please help. My girlfriend is a week and a half late. We had anal sex twice and she is sure she's not pregnant. I don't feel like I came at all I'm just worried I may have leaked some pre-*** and it leak out and make her pregnant t. And please do not say semen dies when hits air that's not true. During anal I came out and bumped between her butt and vag and little worried that might've had pre-***. Anyways she's almost 2 weeks late. She said she's missed periods before and her periods are irregular but she's never cramped and not started before. Her cramps were pretty painful she said like her usual periods she cramps for a week stops then usually few hours later starts period. But its been 2 days and no cramping and no period. and I had her take a test 4 weeks after her last period and a week after each. And all of the 4 pregnancy tests have been negative. Should we be worried? We cannot and do not want to go to doctor and get blood tests done to see if she's pregnant. She cramped like usually does for period and is bloated and had the period headaches.. and no signs of being pregnant.

[Ladyrainacorn]

It does not sound very likely, if she has taken tests and they are negative (and they were done to proper protocol as in: first morning urine, the test strip was immersed in urine for the right amount of time) then I would say you two can put your mind at rest. You did also say that her periods are irregular, so her being late shouldn't have been too much of a big things. Womens bodies work in mysterious ways, we are never 100% the same each cycle which is why she may be cramping more right now. This can be due to stressing about being pregnant, not to mention a whole variety of other factors like medication, illicit drugs, mood, your diet, your sleeping patters... Also every couple of months women will get a period that is typically more heavier and painful than the rest. This is our bodies kind of doing a flush out. Tell her not to worry, but if any of this does not set your minds at ease, then I'm sorry but she will have to go to the doctor. This is the only deffinate way you will find out. So it's either she ***** up her pride and goes to the doctors office, or she accepts the negative tests and you continue on with your lives. Just remember, no one on here can magically see into her uterus, so we cannot just come out and tell you the answer. If you really think she is pregnant, do the right thing and go to the doctor.

[AnnieBrooke]

If the time that has elapsed between the unprotected sex and the last test she took is over two or three weeks, and if she took the test with concentrated, first-morning urine, you can rely on the results.