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pre cum and fingering

help! i’m so stressed. me and my boyfriend are both 16 and wayyy too young to have a kid. he fingered me with pre cum around my ovulation day. he only did it for about 5 minutes or so and the second we realized, we stopped. i went to pee right after. we didn’t use any contraceptives and i come from a very fertile family (my mother conceived with a condom AND birth control!) i’m writing this about a week after and my period isn’t due for another 2 1/2 weeks. the anxiety is crippling and it’s becoming hard to even function. this “fling” is taking a toll on our relationship and he’s stressing as much as i am. i’m starting to show lots of early pregnancy symptoms but they can be explained by either stress or pregnancy, which is making my anxiety even worse. i keep wanting to tell myself that it’s just stress.. but what if it’s a gut feeling? any guidance or advice would be very appreciated!
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3191940 tn?1447268717
Precum on a finger is not a realistic way to get pregnant.  You were also not in the fertile period of your cycle. If you are concerned, you can take a test in a couple of weeks, but your period will almost certainly come on time.
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okay, so are pregnancy symptoms common in the middle of your cycle? i’m just confused because it’s not pms (i’m not in the 2 week window yet).
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You're not quite in the middle of your cycle yet,  claire.  But breast tenderness is common both in early pregnancy,  and during ovulation.

It sounds like this incident happened around day 5 of your monthly cycle - just immediately after your period ended?
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like 5-6 days after but for whatever reason i was showing signs of ovulation immediately after.
when i say 5-6 i mean 5-6 days after my period ended
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