Aa
Out of here.......
I am taking time out of here as to be honest I have found a few members here to be offensive and nothing being done about it.
Just because I tend to disagree on a certain subject (that being Dr. K's book and another member) I feel bullied, ostracised for having my own opinion and feel as if I would be better not being here.
Let this member post ALL the G/F and Adrenals info she wants BUT I hope many will take in the info but NOT follow it to the rule as it will and can cause some harm to SOME.
To be honest, I have lost faith in this forum to the stage that I dont even know if I want to come back.
So time to take a week away from MH.
If the same cr@p is going on in a week...then I am out of here and I wish every single one of you that you find that light at the end of the tunnel as it IS THERE.
Personally myself..I am doing well and will continue to do so because I refuse to give into Graves.
I wish you all the best here at MH but heed some advice..just because something works for one person , doesnt mean it works for ALL.
One size does NOT fit ALL..regardless of what you read.
By all means, read the info here from other members but also 'balance it out' in your head, research it all then come to your OWN conclusion.
Unfortunately I did that and was attacked for not agreeing to it. Sad .
Have a great week everyone and as I said.....I may see you in a week.
Hugs to you All xxx
Just because I tend to disagree on a certain subject (that being Dr. K's book and another member) I feel bullied, ostracised for having my own opinion and feel as if I would be better not being here.
Let this member post ALL the G/F and Adrenals info she wants BUT I hope many will take in the info but NOT follow it to the rule as it will and can cause some harm to SOME.
To be honest, I have lost faith in this forum to the stage that I dont even know if I want to come back.
So time to take a week away from MH.
If the same cr@p is going on in a week...then I am out of here and I wish every single one of you that you find that light at the end of the tunnel as it IS THERE.
Personally myself..I am doing well and will continue to do so because I refuse to give into Graves.
I wish you all the best here at MH but heed some advice..just because something works for one person , doesnt mean it works for ALL.
One size does NOT fit ALL..regardless of what you read.
By all means, read the info here from other members but also 'balance it out' in your head, research it all then come to your OWN conclusion.
Unfortunately I did that and was attacked for not agreeing to it. Sad .
Have a great week everyone and as I said.....I may see you in a week.
Hugs to you All xxx
Hi Deb,
I agree. Please don't go. I have not been here long enough and you have been very helpful. We are all adults here and we know when something does not fit us and when it does. We know what to believe. Come back and help us.
I agree. Please don't go. I have not been here long enough and you have been very helpful. We are all adults here and we know when something does not fit us and when it does. We know what to believe. Come back and help us.
I know I am not a "active" member but I understand where you are coming from. I came to this site about a year ago after my thyroid hell began and was looking for support and understanding. I posted not long ago that I don't come on here very often because of the same reason you mentioned. It seems that I was no longer getting the support I needed but yet a lecture of what I should be doing with my diet (g/f) and not to expect to be better unless I did so. I as well found it very offensive. I have a background in the medical field so I am not oblivous to the easy fix all cures that people preach. I do want to say that there are a few on here that I highly valued opinions of and you are one of them. I will be very sad to see you go but like Barb said it is not easy to sit back and say nothing when people are being that way. It is really sad becasue this disease is horrible and people really do need the support. Good luck Deb and know there are people here who do care for you!! I hope you find the peace you are searching for, hugs!!
COMMUNITY LEADER
To those who say: don't respond to that person ------
Not responding to something that you feel is wrong, is equivalent to condoning it. I totally understand where Deb is coming from, because I'm struggling with the same decision.
Not responding to something that you feel is wrong, is equivalent to condoning it. I totally understand where Deb is coming from, because I'm struggling with the same decision.
Its a shame that people are here for help and others are here to judge. I went through a one time disagreement while a member of this forum, and I must say, I am happy with my response to her judgement. I will not allow anyone to keep me from helping others, and neither should you. Look at all of your responses to this post, people need you and you have touched many. Please do not allow the bad apple out of the bunch to have the last laugh. Have some COJONES (i mean that in a good way) and don't respond to that particular person ever again. Ignore their comments if they are unprofessional and attacking you. Everyone has different struggles, different lifestyles and different opinions. Stand by what you believe in, its obviously touching others and helping others! Its ok to disagree, but if you feel you are being attacked, say what you feel, close it, and continue on to helping the next person! Take a small break and hope to hear from you again.
Hi Deb,
I can't tell you how upset I am that your upset. You are SUCH a good person with a big heart and very knowledgeable about so many things. You have helped me more than you know. When I log onto MH, I look forward to any messages you may have sent me, and to read your responses to member's questions asking for help and advise. YOU are the reason I continue to be a part of this forum.
You have come such a long way with your health, and life is too short for you to be anything but happy. But! "Don't let the b******* get you down!"
I hope to see you back, WE NEED YOU, my friend ! ! !
***HUGS***
I can't tell you how upset I am that your upset. You are SUCH a good person with a big heart and very knowledgeable about so many things. You have helped me more than you know. When I log onto MH, I look forward to any messages you may have sent me, and to read your responses to member's questions asking for help and advise. YOU are the reason I continue to be a part of this forum.
You have come such a long way with your health, and life is too short for you to be anything but happy. But! "Don't let the b******* get you down!"
I hope to see you back, WE NEED YOU, my friend ! ! !
***HUGS***
Take a short break, but please come back soon because we need you and like you very much! You make a difference to so many who are out there that are needing direction. People like you and goolarra are an answer to so many prayers. May the knowledge of this sustain you and be the wind beneath your wings, and don't let anything or anyone blow out your flame. Please continue to keep shinning your light here on MH!
Hi,
We don't want you to LEAVE. Taking breaks is something we all need to do and when we come back, usually we feel better about a situation. When there's difference of opinion, it's oftentimes best to refrain from posting .... just don't post in those threads. MedHelp is a wonderful source of information and that is the beauty of this site -- it allows everyone to gather info, process it, bring it to their own doc, and make informed decisions. What works for one can work for another or nobody -- that's why the info needs to be discussed with our own physician as it applies to us individually.
MedHelp works hard behind the scenes to keep this community a "safe haven" and at the end of the day sometimes I shut down my PC and think of a particular post I may see and say to myself, "Oh well, we agree to disagree"
Hope to see you soon .... we really don't want you to go.
C~
Co-CL Thyroid
We don't want you to LEAVE. Taking breaks is something we all need to do and when we come back, usually we feel better about a situation. When there's difference of opinion, it's oftentimes best to refrain from posting .... just don't post in those threads. MedHelp is a wonderful source of information and that is the beauty of this site -- it allows everyone to gather info, process it, bring it to their own doc, and make informed decisions. What works for one can work for another or nobody -- that's why the info needs to be discussed with our own physician as it applies to us individually.
MedHelp works hard behind the scenes to keep this community a "safe haven" and at the end of the day sometimes I shut down my PC and think of a particular post I may see and say to myself, "Oh well, we agree to disagree"
Hope to see you soon .... we really don't want you to go.
C~
Co-CL Thyroid
Your leaving would be such a loss, for so many. Including myself.
You have a gift...one that can never be taken from you.
It's the gift of the heart...it's called LOVE.
Your lifetime experience's are priceless. No other than yourself...
possess the knowledge of your past trial's and hardship.
Quote
"I wish every single one of you that you find that light at the end of the tunnel as it IS THERE".
Right there...in that statement...is LOVE....your gift.
Not only LOVE...but, HOPE.
I'm new here...I've been "lurking" for awhile...I joined last week. :)
My decision to join, wasn't taken lightly. It was guided by the heart.
What you have to share...what other member's share...give us the hope...
moving forward.
Do I honestly think...I'm going to find life experience...the right path...
On a bookshelf at Border's?
Not at all.
Do I believe...That diet in itself... is a CURE for thyroid disease.
No.
Yes...I understand your fustration...your fighting for what you believe.
That's a value and gift...all within itself.
After reading the post's, in question...I felt fustration.
Knowing..it wasn't the CURE...just a small piece of the puzzle.
You and so many other's hold the key's...
That one day...with life experience and your willingness to share that
knowledge...a CURE will be found.
Please, reconsider your decision.
"I don't want to walk that dark tunnel....alone".
You have a gift...one that can never be taken from you.
It's the gift of the heart...it's called LOVE.
Your lifetime experience's are priceless. No other than yourself...
possess the knowledge of your past trial's and hardship.
Quote
"I wish every single one of you that you find that light at the end of the tunnel as it IS THERE".
Right there...in that statement...is LOVE....your gift.
Not only LOVE...but, HOPE.
I'm new here...I've been "lurking" for awhile...I joined last week. :)
My decision to join, wasn't taken lightly. It was guided by the heart.
What you have to share...what other member's share...give us the hope...
moving forward.
Do I honestly think...I'm going to find life experience...the right path...
On a bookshelf at Border's?
Not at all.
Do I believe...That diet in itself... is a CURE for thyroid disease.
No.
Yes...I understand your fustration...your fighting for what you believe.
That's a value and gift...all within itself.
After reading the post's, in question...I felt fustration.
Knowing..it wasn't the CURE...just a small piece of the puzzle.
You and so many other's hold the key's...
That one day...with life experience and your willingness to share that
knowledge...a CURE will be found.
Please, reconsider your decision.
"I don't want to walk that dark tunnel....alone".
Deb, I see your perspective and totally understand where you are coming from...but there would be so many people (me included) who would miss seeing your supportive comments around here!! I always enjoy seeing your comments to different posts, you are full of useful information!!
Hopefully we will see you around after your break.
Hugs!!! xx
Hopefully we will see you around after your break.
Hugs!!! xx
I agree if it were not for people like you I would not have gotten to where I am now. Thank you.
Please do not let others intimidate you. Cant people just agree to not agree and leave it at that.
You have given me so much helping advice, which has made a huge positive impact in my life in general. And im sure there are many, many others. Ur advce is so valuable to so many.
You have given me so much helping advice, which has made a huge positive impact in my life in general. And im sure there are many, many others. Ur advce is so valuable to so many.
There are always obstacles that we face and some seem so minimal that we give in so easily.
There are many people on this forum, including me that would want you to not "quit" giving your advice and opinion based on others' responses. Because you are a strong minded individual, my post may mean nothing to you...but do know that: You are here for a purpose and I do not believe that your journey is complete...That person may not make a difference here, but you sure do! Hang in there...
There are many people on this forum, including me that would want you to not "quit" giving your advice and opinion based on others' responses. Because you are a strong minded individual, my post may mean nothing to you...but do know that: You are here for a purpose and I do not believe that your journey is complete...That person may not make a difference here, but you sure do! Hang in there...
Dont you dare leave because of some people, what about those you give brillant advice to. What about the people who give such kind words for? treat those people who upset you the same as the doctors, ignore them. Trust in those that truely need you to help them. Those of us who have no where to go but here. Have faith in us helpless souls struggling to deal with day to day things and who shed tears at your warmth and generousity with your time. A book will not help us, and whilst some are desperate enough to try it, the majority of us come here for support, YOUR SUPPORT. You cannot change those who have their opinions, but you can and DO make a difference to the majority here. Stay and be our guardian of truth.
omg i finally find a good place and as usual now everyone is leaving- the story of my life. maybe you could all just take a little break. please don t burn the bridge- there are people here who need you. deb and goolarra if you leave i will be depressed.
Hi!
Agreed, please don't leave. Take a break if you need. I am here to make things easier for those who need help, and so many do.
The opinions of one individual don't change the needs of so many others. We need a team of us here to answer them. And you are such a valued member of the team.
Hugs.
Sally
Agreed, please don't leave. Take a break if you need. I am here to make things easier for those who need help, and so many do.
The opinions of one individual don't change the needs of so many others. We need a team of us here to answer them. And you are such a valued member of the team.
Hugs.
Sally
Don't you DARE leave these people! You helped me so much through my HYPER Journey! I haven't been on here in ages (except for one pop in), but just so you know, I never got the ablation, I still have my thyroid, and I take 50 mgs. of PTU one time a day. My levels are normal, and have been for over a year! Nodules didn't get bigger, so I never needed the biopsy! I have no clue what happened here, but I do know this: You were MY LIGHT! You and Red and Utah, 898, AR-10 and Stella. I don't know who's here and who isn't anymore. I couldn't have gotten through this without you. Unfortunately, I am having surgery on August 25th. Nothing to do with the Thyroid. I have a very large uterine tumor that's pressing into my abdominal wall, and I'm having surgery to remove it. Another hurdle, but I'll make it just fine! As for you, lovely lady, of course your not going to agree with everyone and everything on here! That's what makes you so freakin' AWESOME! I hope Robert and the rest of your family are well. I miss you so much, Deb! Don't let these people down!!!! Big hugs!! PM me if you get a minute!
Shari
Shari
I find this so depressing. However, I can completely understand your perspective and am rapidly losing faith in this forum myself. I wish I could say, "Don't do it, Deb.", but I'm wrestling with whether or not I want to continue my participation in this forum, either.
Unfortunately, just adding "It worked for me, but might not work for everyone.." is no longer enough, since one can say that while still implying that it IS right for 99% of us. Unfortunately, anything repeated often enough takes on the air of truth, whether or not it is.
I hope to see you back next week, too, Deb...will miss you.
Unfortunately, just adding "It worked for me, but might not work for everyone.." is no longer enough, since one can say that while still implying that it IS right for 99% of us. Unfortunately, anything repeated often enough takes on the air of truth, whether or not it is.
I hope to see you back next week, too, Deb...will miss you.
Please don't leave! I have really appreciated your comments each time I have seen them (big time lurker here). You are greatly valued and it would be a shame to let yourself be driven away from the boards. Can't you just not respond to whomever it is posting. Perhaps that person will realize they need to moderate their approach and preface it with "It worked for me, but might not work for everyone." We are a small group within the larger barren waste land of hypothyroid infomation and I hate to lose your knowledge.
COMMUNITY LEADER
Deb, you are a very valued member of this forum and you always seem to be one of the few "voices of reason" here. I'd hate to see you leave and not come back. You've taught us (me in particular) some very valuable lessons.
I'll miss you and hope to see you next week.
(((hugs))) back to you.
I'll miss you and hope to see you next week.
(((hugs))) back to you.
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