I have a 75 year old grandfather who is very sick for about 1 month. He is unable to stand up, or sit for long, and also frequently unable to tell us when nature calls him(which is approximately 5-6 times or more per day), and thus spoils his clothes and room. In this lockdown we are unable to find hospitals to treat him. Thus we are bound to do the cleaning ourselves. But we're currently unable to continue the cleaning as we have become sick for this hard labour, and also, my mother is sufering from depression due to his deteriorating health. She cries very often and blames herself for all this. Please suggest us what to do ASAP.