Strange dryness, pain and bumps getting worse for past year

[Mobius_1]

So since about July 2018, I’ve been experiencing strange symptoms that my docs can’t figure out,. It started with groinal pain that went away after a week. Shortly after, white spots started appearing on my mouth and haven’t gone away ever, more white spots every month. In nov, I. Exams severely dehydrated during a workout and was hospitalized 1 week for rhabdomyolysis. That’s when the dryness started. In my face and my lips. My lips have been completely dry , not chapped but absolutely dry since then for which I use aquaphor. That wasn’t too bad until the worst symptom appeared: red spots all over my lips that only show up when I eat, am stressed in the slightest or strangely when I engage in sexual activities. It resolves itself after about 30 minutes but it has my life hell. I can’t eat now unless I know I can be alone for the 30 minutes it takes for the red spots to go away. Already tested for sexual diseases and all negative. The last symptom appeared 2 days ago with chest pain about 3/10 for a few seconds every few minutes for the duration of those two days, and gets worse when I eat. Please help me it’s been ruining my life and I’ve become very depressed because of it.

[Mobius_1]

Also forgot to mention the dryness on lips is so bad that if I happen to touch them even with the smallest amount of pressure, that red spot appears and has the same 30 min timer as the rest. I also break out anywhere on my face that I have even slightly touched. And it itches all the time so those breakouts are pretty much everyday.