I am a 20 year old female who constantly gets UTI's. (Yes, I am in college but I do not sleep around contrary to popular belief about girls in college) I follow all the regular protocol like peeing after intercourse, cranberries, AZO, etc. I recently felt like I had a UTI for over a month and went to three different doctors including a gyno and they all said it was nothing. I ended up with a severe kidney infection and went to a urologist to confirm..
About 4 months before this, I began dating a new guy, and it was about 2 months ago, this one occasion he was rubbing my clitoris too hard. I told him to not do it so hard but he didn't quite understand what I meant and it was dry, it was very uncomfortable and once I reached orgasm I had intense pain and had to push him off so he would stop and I went to the bathroom. It was then that I noticed this pain would not go away. Since that day, I have continued to have this horrible feeling like a giant rock has been punted into my clitoris all the time.
It sometimes gets so uncomfortable that it goes numb for a few minutes and those are the only times I have any relief but it always comes back within a few minutes. It also sometimes makes me feel as though I have to pee but the urologist I saw from the kidney infection attributed this symptom to a lingering effect from the kidney infection pain. I then had a couple CT's and one with contrast dye and a cystoscopy to try and rule out all possibilities of something urinary being that I have this longstanding history with UTI's, but I don't know where to go from here. They did discover that my left kidney has two ureters instead of one, but they conjoin at the bladder again and I have no bladder problems or kidney stones, so they ruled out the urinary issue and suggested I go see a GYN again.
I don't know if I should go back to my GYN again or who I should go to, since the last time I went there she was wholly unhelpful and misdiagnosed the UTI that turned into a kidney infection. I want this pain to go away, and I am really afraid it is permanent clitoral damage. When it is at its worst, it makes my legs feel really warm. It's the most frustrating sensation I have ever encountered and the fact that I cannot do anything to make it disappear is terrifying. Please help. I know this is not much of a question, but I am driving myself insane trying to get it to go away and continuously failing. (I have also withheld from intercourse at all during this time period that I have been having this pain as I fear that intercourse may worsen the symptoms) PLEASE if anyone has any advice, what other specialist to go to, what to do, anyone with similar experiences, I need guidance and I need help. I am only 20 years old and this is incredibly scary for me. Thank you for your time.