My husband's TURP was exactly three weeks ago and the feelings of urgency apparently are not much better than before the surgery. He is better sleeping through the night with only one or two trips to the bathroom but, during the day, the minute he stands up after sitting for awhile, he feels a great need to urinate quickly. He also says his testicles are aching particularly in the evening. Bleeding does not seem to be much of a problem and I know that this can take awhile but he's getting quite discouraged and wondering if this was all worth it.