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I'm losing my mind with fear, please help!
I'm honesty so confused and lost right now, and any help would be much appreciated.
On March 22 I had sex with a guy I met in a club (I know, recipe for disaster). We were both drunk and I remember seeing him put a condom on and waking up to see the condom on the floor. The sex didn't last too long because I was in pain so I'm DEFINITE he didn't ejaculate inside me.
The last period I had ended on March 20, two days before he and I hooked up. It's been OVER FOUR MONTHS and I've still to see my period. I took two home pregnancy test at the end of April, on two different days, and they both came out negative. I was satisfied for a while, but where's my period?
Now, four months without a period, I took another pregnancy test, and that came back negative. I bought a pack of two so I'll take the next one tomorrow.
In the last two months, I've gained 3kgs, especially around my belly area. I have been eating more than usual, coupled with lack of exercise, but I physically resemble a pregnant girl. I've been under a lot of stress and anxiety for a while, but could that really delay a period for four months?
Also, I had one Depo-Provera shot back in July 2014 (my first ever shot) and I hated what it did to me so I didn't get another one. That should've run out in October of 2014. I had a period in September and then I missed October and November. My period resumed December, January, February and March of this year and nothing since then.
I'm absolutely terrified! I don't want a baby at all, and if if turns out that I am pregnant, it may be too late to do anything about it.
I'm calling my GP on Monday to errange a blood test, because I don't know what else I can do. I'm terifried to tell my mom, so I won't, but I just really need some support at this time.
Judging by all that I've written, does anyone suspect that I may actually be pregnant? Is this even likely? Please help.
Also, my period has always been a little irregular, but nothing like this. I'm 20 years old and I'm terrified.
On March 22 I had sex with a guy I met in a club (I know, recipe for disaster). We were both drunk and I remember seeing him put a condom on and waking up to see the condom on the floor. The sex didn't last too long because I was in pain so I'm DEFINITE he didn't ejaculate inside me.
The last period I had ended on March 20, two days before he and I hooked up. It's been OVER FOUR MONTHS and I've still to see my period. I took two home pregnancy test at the end of April, on two different days, and they both came out negative. I was satisfied for a while, but where's my period?
Now, four months without a period, I took another pregnancy test, and that came back negative. I bought a pack of two so I'll take the next one tomorrow.
In the last two months, I've gained 3kgs, especially around my belly area. I have been eating more than usual, coupled with lack of exercise, but I physically resemble a pregnant girl. I've been under a lot of stress and anxiety for a while, but could that really delay a period for four months?
Also, I had one Depo-Provera shot back in July 2014 (my first ever shot) and I hated what it did to me so I didn't get another one. That should've run out in October of 2014. I had a period in September and then I missed October and November. My period resumed December, January, February and March of this year and nothing since then.
I'm absolutely terrified! I don't want a baby at all, and if if turns out that I am pregnant, it may be too late to do anything about it.
I'm calling my GP on Monday to errange a blood test, because I don't know what else I can do. I'm terifried to tell my mom, so I won't, but I just really need some support at this time.
Judging by all that I've written, does anyone suspect that I may actually be pregnant? Is this even likely? Please help.
Also, my period has always been a little irregular, but nothing like this. I'm 20 years old and I'm terrified.
Thank you!
I'm booking my appointment as soon as the doctor's opens tomorrow, and I'm going to stress how urgent my situation is and get in the office as quickly as possible.
Even though I'm not telling my mom, I do have cousins that I can talk to. If I do turn out to be pregnant, I know they would support me and help me with the abortion process, so I won't have to go through all this alone.
Congrats to you and wife, too! :)
I'm booking my appointment as soon as the doctor's opens tomorrow, and I'm going to stress how urgent my situation is and get in the office as quickly as possible.
Even though I'm not telling my mom, I do have cousins that I can talk to. If I do turn out to be pregnant, I know they would support me and help me with the abortion process, so I won't have to go through all this alone.
Congrats to you and wife, too! :)
Hi Melina511,
I am just writing in support of your situation. I think my wife experienced something like that with our son several years ago; I know that she also has an irregular menstruation cycle. She had bought the pregnancy testing kits and in the early stages, her results came back negative. Then maybe a few weeks or a month in, she had started complaining about pain in her breast. She was scared and kept wondering whether it was cancer. After a few weeks of feeling completely useless in a sense that I couldn't ease her mind, I suggested that she take the pregnancy test again, and sure enough she was.
It might be a normal sign if a pregnancy test comes out negative in the early stages, but considering the fact that its been 4 months in and still negative results...I am thinking you're not pregnant, but I would suggest speaking about that with your doctor.
As a parent, I don't think keeping it from someone like your mom is a good idea, although I understand why you would feel the need to do so. I'd say if you feel the need to keep it away from her, at least only after a visit to the doctors. Hope everything turns out to be okay for you. Best of luck.
I am just writing in support of your situation. I think my wife experienced something like that with our son several years ago; I know that she also has an irregular menstruation cycle. She had bought the pregnancy testing kits and in the early stages, her results came back negative. Then maybe a few weeks or a month in, she had started complaining about pain in her breast. She was scared and kept wondering whether it was cancer. After a few weeks of feeling completely useless in a sense that I couldn't ease her mind, I suggested that she take the pregnancy test again, and sure enough she was.
It might be a normal sign if a pregnancy test comes out negative in the early stages, but considering the fact that its been 4 months in and still negative results...I am thinking you're not pregnant, but I would suggest speaking about that with your doctor.
As a parent, I don't think keeping it from someone like your mom is a good idea, although I understand why you would feel the need to do so. I'd say if you feel the need to keep it away from her, at least only after a visit to the doctors. Hope everything turns out to be okay for you. Best of luck.
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