I am scheduled for a total hysterectomy at the end of Dec. 2013. I was told by my family Dr. 2yrs ago I was in post-Menopause, by blood test. I was also told by my Gyn. Dr. that I have a tennis ball size fibroid in the uterus. I do not have any Bleeding. I have not had a period in 2 yrs. I have painful intercourse from severe dryness and vaginal atrophy. I tried Premarin years ago, but stopped it due to Heart disease and stroke in my family history. No family Hx. of cancer. This past summer I tried Estrogen patch and oral Progesterone 100mg for six months, I felt like I gained a lot of weight around the middle. I'm only 5'4" and weigh 150lbs, so I don't need any additional weight on me. I have a Hx. of Bilateral Knee osteoarthritis and D.D.D. of the spine, due to old athletic injuries. MY Gyn. told me to stop the hormones, because I developed two small raised lesions on my biceps, which turned out to be Ok. I was mostly dissatisfied with the extra weight gain. I would like to have a healthy libido again, without pain. I feel like the 3 OB-GYNS I have seen in the past year, (same group) want to do nothing but surgery. But I am still not sure what to do. The last Dr. told me I also need to have my Rt. ovary removed due to a cyst now on a sonogram last week. I have past the mild hot flashes yrs. ago and really do not have any severe symptoms, but joint pain, bladder pressure Dx. with I.C.( Interstitial Cystitis) and some forgetfulness occasionally . If anyone out there can give me some insight or advice before I make a drastic mistake, I would greatly appreciate it.