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19 year old female
So i have a serious question well senerio .. So I've had multiple sex partners ( not a *****) and I've noticed not ONE guy I've had sex with had been able to make me *** OR even CLOSE to cumming . so at this point im wondering if something is just wrong with me? Should I go and get checked ? I don't *** off oral , anal or vaginal .. But I do have a vibrator and I do *** off my vibrator but ONLY when I turn it all the way up and it's on my clit HELP
I agree with Codewordred. Sex gets better with age, especially with a guy that knows what he is doing and when there are feelings involved. I started having sex at 14 years old and did not experience my first orgasm until about 18 or 19. Do some foreplay, enjoy the sensation, get on top, move in a way that feels good to you. Get into what you're feeling and you will eventually reach an orgasm. Nothing is wrong with you. I've had over 10 partners and only two knew how to turn me on the rest I had to do on my own.
I was in the same boat for a long time. I began to wonder why all the hype about sex and if I was broken.
First, females need to be in the moment to truly enjoy sex and reach orgasm. It just isn't as easy for us as it is for guys. We often focus on how much we want to climax, when really the focus should be on enjoying the sensations of the moment.
Second, you know your body better than anyone. Don't be afraid to express what you need, what pressure and rhythm... Each woman is different in their needs and often men are not knowledgeable about sex and that orgasms are not the same for females.
And third many many women can't get off on vaginal stimulation.alone. Again, this is common. Luckily there are positions that please him, while providing you the stimulation to your clit.
Don't give up! Through trial and error that elusive "O" will come.
First, females need to be in the moment to truly enjoy sex and reach orgasm. It just isn't as easy for us as it is for guys. We often focus on how much we want to climax, when really the focus should be on enjoying the sensations of the moment.
Second, you know your body better than anyone. Don't be afraid to express what you need, what pressure and rhythm... Each woman is different in their needs and often men are not knowledgeable about sex and that orgasms are not the same for females.
And third many many women can't get off on vaginal stimulation.alone. Again, this is common. Luckily there are positions that please him, while providing you the stimulation to your clit.
Don't give up! Through trial and error that elusive "O" will come.
You are still young. For women, the sex gets better as you get older. Your mid to late 20's you start to figure out more of what you like and if you're lucky to have someone who wants you to feel good too, they will listen to you when you tell them what you need. Dont be afraid to ask/tell them. The sex will be that much better. It is very normal not to get off from sex. Though being in top does increase your chances by like 40%
Most women can’t come from vaginal stimulation alone. You’ll need a lot of attention to the clit, and if someone doesn’t know how to do it right then it won’t happen. Nothings wrong with you, most times it’s because a lot of men never really learn how to push all the buttons in a good way. Even some women can’t push those buttons properly, myself included. I’m 19 and I can’t finish using a vibrator or my boyfriend, but 40% of women never experience an orgasim in there life, so don’t worry.
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