I read all the details, but he cheated... isn't that enough to end this relationship?
I'm a man but I have a hard time supporting this dude...
Basically when you have to try this hard to find a possibility that the child isn't his... you're already trying too hard.
Find an other one.
Unfortunately all is fair in love war and reproduction. Child support laws and divorce laws may not be to men. Men can use condoms or get a usually permanent vasectomy. That is their only choices.
Men out there use spermicidal condoms, maybe use extra spermicide. Don't leave the condom behind.
My ex wanted kids and had her iud fall out. I think I was probably had and then she wanted sex unprotected for a second. I got a vasectomy at 27 and she got rid of me. My new wife wished I was fertile, we tried reversing it with no luck. Sex was not as exciting with me because their was no chance but much better for me because of no worries.
Wow, I am in a situation just like yours and I'm going crazy, my boyfriend said he was protected but this girl told him "your going to be mine and mine only, I will do anything so you will be mine and no one else" , she got pregnant around the March or so and found out she was pregnant in the beginning of April, she's due in December 7th or so, IDK what to do....
well.. the baby was born either two days ago or yesterday, my bf isn't picking up his calls and his phone is apperently "diconntected, changed or no longer in serivce", anyone tell me not to freak out now? how long does it take for you to get the DNA result? a week?
Yeah I have to wait, it just ***** to have to wait for her to pop the damn baby out. We're planning to get married and well, it's a dealbreaker right now. It takes time to get all the paperwork done for him to bring me to the U.S. So I don't know if I should wait or not for the DNA to show up, I don't wanna waste extra months if it comes up that she have been BS-ing everything.. I'll definently hit you guys up when the result comes back.
Thanks for the replies guys, very much appreciated!
you dont have much longer left to wait...good luck and let us know the results..But just to *** something i think she is being a total quack!! lol...I think that it would be too much to do what she has said she done!! LOL
It is probably a bunch of BS, and your boyfriend can get a court ordered paternity test once the baby is born. Don't press her to get it before the baby is born, that would require an amnio and it is not usually advised unless there is a problem.
Just try and blow her off until the baby is born and then do the DNA test. If your boyfriend is being honest and didn't sleep with her at that time, there's really not much you can do until then. Good luck!
Wow ... massive sense of humour failure there ...
It probably is possible, provided the condom did not contain spermacide. And of course, she would've had to get it to the lab in good time and not have exposed it to excessive heat/cold that would render the sperm dead..
Good luck with that, it's really a crappy situation to be in :/