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Gets Orgy When Boyfriend Rubs My Buttcheeks

I am able to get aroused at just the sight of my boyfriend and when I am touching/kissing him.  But during foreplay, I cannot get an orgasm when he is fingering me and licking my clit, nor am I able to achieve one when he penetrates me.  I do get aroused, but no orgasm.  I even have trouble getting off when I masterbate that way.  But I get extremely intense orgasms that I never ever had before just from him rubbing the outside of my butt cheeks.  He is able to make me scream his name, and it's like I can never get enough.  I had eight orgasms in a row the last time!!!  This just blows both our minds.  He said he has never known a woman in his sexual past to achieve an orgasm that way.  It was the first time I ever had an orgy.  He and I both thought the only way for a woman to achieve orgasm was for him to be inside me.  Although it's absolutely wonderful I found a way to achieve an orgy, it frustrates me that I can't achieve the same feeling the normal way.  He says I get wetter than any other woman he has ever been with and because of that he comes too soon, which makes it more difficult for me to achieve an orgy the normal way.  Is there any other woman on here that has been in the same situation?  I just wonder if there is something wrong with me, or am I normal, just different?  
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As you know every woman is different.  maybe you need more stimulation while YOU are doing it!!!  Have him suck or play on ur breast while you play with yourself.  Almost as if your havind sex but your not.  As wet as you get during sex is as wet as u should get by yourself.  Get into it more really try to feel it.  Do not concentrate on an orgasm.  You state that when he rubs (like as in rubbing ur back???) your butt u have an orgasm...  R u having an orgasm or are you just feeling intense sensations??? Do you come that way too?
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Yes, he rubs my butt just like he would rub my back.  When he rubs my buttcheeks, I  feel aroused in my clitoral and vaginal area.  The more he rubs, the more aroused i get there.  Yes, I truly do get very intense orgasms, and I am able to ejaculate that way.  I don't know if it is a psychological or physiological thing, but I think it is unusual to achieve orgasm without him being inside me.
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Well any woman can have an orgasm without a man inside her.  I can achieve one by myself.  So that right there has nothing unusual about it.  
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