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I am a virgin and do not find penetrative masterbation pleasurable

I am 19 years old, a virgin, and masterbate regularly (clitoral stimulation)

I have tried different ways of masterbation, including finger penetration, but I don't seem to find it pleasurable. It just hurts?

I have seen different conversations where other female virgins masterbate and it feels great, but I can't seem to get any pleasure unless it's clitoral stimulation?

What should I try? Or is there something wrong with me?
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134578 tn?1693250592
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Don't believe the junk people write on the Internet. It's about as useful as believing porno films (built largely for cinematic effect) depict real-life sex.
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973741 tn?1342342773
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It's okay.  Truth is, fingering yourself is not at all like love making with a partner. You like what you like.  Don't force the issue. Most women have a better experience and orgasm from clitoral stimulation any way.  Girls talk and talk bit and it sometimes isn't even the truth.  So, don't compare.  When you have a partner down the road, you can explore and find what feels good.  good luck
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