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I think theres something wrong with me. help?!

Me and my boyfriend have been together for a good few months and we've decided to have, both of us were virgins and our first time was good as far as i've been told. i had no pain at all. However we have stated to have sex a few times since and im starting to bleed during and after. We Have used contraception every time that we have had sexual contact, and we are both very consious about our sexual health, in fact he's the one that pointed out i was bleeding. I have no idea what is wrong with me, i am pretty sure it could just be my hymen breaking but i don't know, i am willing to go see a doctor. I do also have some sort of pain when my boyfriend 'stimulates' me i dont now what that is either but could that have anything to do with it?
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There have been tumes for me when I have started bleeding after sex with a guy with a larger penis.  I don't know why this happens but it does for me.  Once your hymen breaks, it's done.  It doesn't break more than once.  Are you using lubrication?  If your vaginal walls are not moist enough, they can get rough and I suppose even bleed.

Hope this helps!
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In addition to what the other poster said...trying using a water based lubricant such as KY.
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Hi,
The very first time where you had no pain at all, are you sure he was fully inserted into you?  He may not have gone all the way in yet, but is going a little further each time like you say and your hyman is trying to break.  I don't know why you would be having pain though when he stimulates you - I am assuming here that you mean he's stimulating you from the outside.  First I'd make sure he's been going all the way in.  Then if you keep bleeding after intercourse, and continue to have pain upon stimulation, I would see the doctor like you said.  Good luck.
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