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Hey guys, this is my first time on MedHelp and I have a quick question that I need answered. Any help that you guys can give will be greatly appreciated. I'm a seventeen year old male. My girlfriend and I had sex without a condom two days ago, and I did not have an orgasm or ejaculate. I didn't come close to having an orgasm, I was only inside of her for two maybe three minutes. I've done research on precum beforehand, and I keep getting mixed signals. The last time I ejaculated before we had sex was the day before, but I urinated afterwords, and even after that. Some people say precum contains sperm all of the time, others say precum doesn't contain sperm at all unless it picks up the ones leftover from the last ejaculation. I believe theory number two, however since I urinated multiple times before we had sex, could there have been any sperm in my precum? We didn't really mean to have sex without a condom either, it just kind of happened. We got into it, there was a lot of touching and rubbing, I pulled out my penis and began rubbing her vagina with it. It just kind of slipped in and we began having sex. Anyways, I'm just a little worried that she might get pregnant. Her period ended about three to four days before this happened, I'm keeping an eye on her and she seems to be doing normal. She's showing no signs of pregnancy. Anyways, any help you guys can give would be great. Also, after we had sex (without finishing) I decided to pull it out and stop in the middle of it. We laid on her couch together for another few hours, but when we stood up to leave her house we both got very lightheaded and dizzy, our stomach region was feeling very tingly aswell. Does anyone know what that is, or even why it happened? Thanks for your answers in advance.
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1270043 tn?1320699188
american pregnancy
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i believe if you go to *****************.com they have a section on it. but as i recall yes it does kill the sperm. I'm glad i could help! :)
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When you urinate after ejaculating, does that kill off all of the sperm in the urethra? Thanks vrice by the way, you've put our minds at ease.
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ok first of all yes there is sperm in precum and yes you can get pregnant with precum. but then again in order to get pregnant you would have to be ovulating. most women ovulate within 14 days after there period but not all women some can be shorted and some can be longer. the only way for a girl to know is if she tracts it monthly. and second of all sperm can live in you for 7 days. i think you are ok but you need to be more careful if you are not planning on getting your girl pregnant. getting caught up in the moment can end up in something that basically takes away your teenage years. so if she isn't this time you are lucky and if i was you don't do it again just b/c you was lucky this time doesn't mean you will be next time. as for the dizziness and feeling weird that you two had i believe it was your nerves b/c of what you two did and the worrying was kicking in and from you two getting all hot and heavy b/c the blood was rushing to certain areas and when you two got up it was just too much for your body to handle at that moment. oh yeah and for the checking her to see if she is normal or having any pregnancy symptoms. most people don't get any symptoms until they are at least 4 weeks pregnant and some don't have any at all. all so a lot of pregnancy symptoms can be just like symptoms of you about to start your period.
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It sounds too me like you have a good chance of not getting pregnant. but there are those few rare cases when it does happen in situations like that. The chances of you having sperm at the tip of your penis is very slim if you urinated before hand and didnt ejaculate. For her to get pregnant she has to ovulate first. so if it was a bout 5 days after her period she has about 9 more days untill her egg drops(assuming she is regular). Sperm only lives for about 2-5 days, so again it looks like you have a very good chance of not impregnating her. keep looking out and if she starts showing any signs like nausea, frequent headaches, dizzyness,frequent urination, or very light bleeding before her period, you may want to have her  take a hpt. if she doesnt and she has her period on time you should be ok. As for both of you having a tingling feeling in your stomach im not sure. maybe it was just a weird coincidence. i hope this helps! best of luck to you
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