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Is there a risk of me being pregnant?

So yesterday, my boyfriend and I were doing a little foreplay here and there and when I was giving him a little handy, a little pre-*** came out, and we were both a little confused since he was no where close to ejaculating at all, so he grab a little bit between his thumb and pointing finger. The amount was very little, like he rolled it up and it was the size of a crumb and he wiped it off on his shorts pretty roughly to make sure it was off, and they were dried, and then after that, I went to the bathroom, washed my hands, twice and dried them off, then went back and we talked for a few minutes, deciding if he and I should do stuff on me or not, and then we decided to, so we made out a little, and had a little nipple play and then he fingered me, but after we were done whatever we realized he never washed his hands. NOW, those two fingers he used to grab the pre-*** didn't go in my vagina, not at all, and they didn't even touch the outer lips, just my skin on my bum and inner thighs. He said for me not to worry because he said it was dried off and didn't touch, but me, someone with bad anxiety, is completely freaking out internally for being stupid. So my question is , is there any reason to worry if I could become pregnant? Sorry for the long story, but I wanted to make sure I got all the detail in for you guys.
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Hey , thanks for the reply~ Im asking my cousin, who is a nurse on her thoughts~
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Yeah, my aunt is saying probably wont be either, but I'm know for worrying a lot with things that I shouldn't have to worry about. I asked my cousin who is a nurse what she thinks, and she has yet to reply. But this is an eye opener to just cool it down with him, Thank you your reply :) Very nice that you responded fast~
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Well, we can at least say it is very unlikely.  
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After reading that long story , I can swear that you are not pregnant at all ,..
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973741 tn?1342342773
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Hi there.  Well, you don't get pregnant from fingering.  Intercourse needs to be involved.  he wiped it off, etc. so you won't be pregnant from that incident.  However, you sound like you are playing with fire.  You probably should have birth control in the form of condoms available at all times or not be so sexual.  that's just my opinion but many people lose control and go ahead and have sex and then a possible pregnancy happens.  So, better to prepare ahead of time or not put yourself in such compromising, tempting situations.  

And that is a good lesson, that you saw the precum so early is why women should never do the pull and pray method because it can lead to pregnancy.  You never know when a man will emit some sperm so always use protection!

good luck
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