I understand that this question is disgusting, but, I'm a teenager, and I'm scared to death. I've found several moles on my labia, and one of them is underneath where my vagina ends. I wasn't concerned about this because none of them have caused me any kind of pain, and I figured since I have moles in a number of weird places, this was no different. However, after reading about melanoma, I'm basically scared out of my wits. The moles are flat, symmetrical, dark brown, and there is no itching, hurting, bumps, lesions, rashes, or changes in texture. The thing that scares me the most is that the mark I specified is oval in shape, but fades out slightly towards one end. I get how completely nasty this question but, please help, I'm afraid I'm going to die.
Do you normally get this anxious about other things? Excessive anxiety with multiple things is a horrible thing to live with, and it's treatable with therapy. Not saying it necessarily applies to you, but it's something to think about (of course, having no background other than the internet when it comes to health topics can be enough to scare anyone).
If you're still really concerned about it, ask a dermatologist to take a look. Unless they're busy growing at a fast rate, you can wait til your next physical and ask your GP about it, and ask them for a referral.