Pain and bleeding after fingering

[papa472]

I fingered my girlfriend a week ago (not the first time) it was pretty rough then we stopped when we noticed bright red blood. The bleeding stopped right away but came back the next day and still bleeding until now but not too much.
She doesnt want to go to the doctor and im worried. She said it isnt probably really serious.

If i scratched her, will heal by itself? (It's been a week)
If i broke her hymen partially, should i break it completely to stop the bleeding?
Please help me asap

[JuliaBob]

Although the blood is minimal but you should care for her. I agree with the above answer there should be some free hospital in usa.

[evewisewoman]

Hello again,

You say the bleeding is very minimal. But you admit there is still bleeding.
No, I don't think it's okay to just leave it.  Your girlfriend should have medical attention to make sure everything is okay. You say you don't have
money for a check up. I think I remember you and your girlfriend live in
the US. Surely, there must be something like a free clinic perhaps.
She needs to be looked at to make sure she's okay and that means medical attention.  Fingering needs to be done gently, never roughly.
A woman's genital area is very sensitive and delicate. Yes, you should
abstain for awhile, but your girlfriend should still be seen by a doctor
to make sure she's okay, that there is no damage etc.

[papa472]

As of now, the bleeding is very minimal and the pain is slowly going away. Do you think it's okay if we let it heal? She really doesn't want to go cause we still don't have money for a check up. I told her we should abstain first though

[evewisewoman]

Hello there,

You need to tell your girlfriend she should make an appointment with her
family doctor. There is always the risk of infection. As to whether you should
break her hymen completely, I wouldn't. This could be dangerous. Take it
easy and not rough next time. You should see a doctor..