Hello,
Ive just joined medhelp but its been a long time in coming, I often read the forums using google on women’s health subjects.
I'm a 21yr old female who is sexually active with a monogamous partner. We use condoms, plenty of lubrication, exemplary hygiene, and take it easy, and yet I find that no matter what I do to prevent it, I get sick after having sex.
I've been to the doctor, but half the time they run lab tests for hours, scratch their heads in consternation at this undiagnosable 'sediment' in my urine and I get stuck with no solution and a big fat lab test bill. I HAVE had uncountable UTIs, 1 kidney infection, 1 kidney stone, 1 vaginosis, and several yeast infections (and I've only become sexually active at 19, so can you IMAGINE how often I've been to the doctor about that 'area'?). As a constant, I ALWAYS get painful urination in some way 1-2 days after sex. ALWAYS.
THIS time the symptoms are accompanied by an odd smelling light pink/beige and creamy discharge 1 week after sex lasting 1 week so far. I have painful urination which started the day after the sex, (although the pain does not come from my urethra but rather my vagina as I urinate, weird i know). My urine is extremely murky and I have a constant sharp pain deep in my pelvis.
So far, I've tried good hygiene, plenty of lubrication, lots and lots of water, wiping front to back, peeing before and after sex, eating plenty of foods with tannins in them, having gentle sex, changing my diet to include yogurt and exclude bread, changing to nonlatex condoms, changing to NO condoms, changing the area we have sex on to a very clean area we prepared before hand. Frankly we are running out of ideas!
The only thing that works 100% is abstinence or no penetration.
Please help!