Pregnant from pre-***? URGENT

[nickijune]

My boyfriend and I are both VIRGINS and we don't plan to have sex until we are ready(and protected). Two days ago we started to become more intimate and decided to try touching each other. I did touch his private area and noticed some pre-*** while preforming oral.(he also touched himself, but says he did not touch any pre-***) A few moments later, our fingers dried, and I led his finger into my vagina. (if this helps he did use the restroom)
I have been re-searching the odds of pregnancies from this and it seems either ridiculously stupid or a slight chance. I had just finished my period when this happened and we are terrified if I become pregnant. I am also embarrassed and going crazy from the guilt since my parents are conservative they will not take my situation kindly. Can I actually get pregnant from this? If we had no genital to genital contact, no penetration from the penis and no actual ejaculation. We both haven't had the experience of ANY sexual acts until that time, so your answer will educate us.


PLEASE HELP
-nicki

[nickijune]

Thank you so much for replying, ive been so worried.

[Chima7]

You really can't get pregnant that way. It's just not possible. Semen is what keeps the sperm alive. After it is exposed to air and dries on your hands, its dead and can't do anything.

Also, sperm has a long way to go to reach the cervix and get inside the uterus. It can't just walk there, it has to be forcefully injected inside you near the cervix in order to get to where it needs to be to get you pregnant.

The best thing you can do is get condoms and have him put one on before you do anything because even if you're not having sex, at least he'll be covered and you won't have to worry about it if you are doing other stuff.