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Sexual dysfunction?
My OBGYN's brush of my question and my PCP Doc looks at me weird.
WARNING MAY BE TMI!
Awkward to ask but is this a type f sexual dysfunction ?
For as long as I can remember I can NEVER directly touch my Clitoris...
if I do don't feel pleasure nor pain just a annoying unexplained sensation, What makes it so annoying is the full body spasms?
I will jerk around all over and look like a full its not just the legs but my back kinda like I am having a seizure...
It hurts my back and the feeling is scary and not pleasant.
I heard of oversensitivity but this sounds ridiculous!
I can touch ONE and only ONE spot around the area and get the BEST pleasure I can come close too..... but it's hard for my husband to find.... and it don't last long.
I don't think I ever had a orgasm and I am 26 had children.... I think I reached the age where I should have had a orgasm.
This odd clitoral response along with lack of orgasm has cause me to not enjoy sex too much.
I want to be able to have a orgasm or know what one feels like.... I want to be normal and be able to have some kind of foreplay.... the tongue don't do much IMO and he can't go near my clit :/
I got that one sex position which makes it semi feel like something.... but no O or extreme pleasure like people talk about. I hear other people say there are other things besides the clitoris but Idc about those I want to her any idea on what could be wrong. Another reason Idc about the "other" things is cause I tried ALOT and nothing really phases me except DEEP cervix impact or that one spot and NOTHING comes close to that one spot lol
And want my husband to be abel to give me the pleasure I feel like that spot he can never find after years of marriage or from sex in general or atleast an orgasm!
Anyone know what would cause the clitoris to respond this way? I heard of people talking about it not feeling pleasurable but to cause full body jerking and full body shakes that are painful and causes contractions like in the chest that make it hard and painful to breath? I mean i must be wired really wrong for that to happen?
Maybe its my Vagina in general? Its always been swollen like (NOT the inner hole or inside TMI) it's the outside like a puffy soft pillow and my inner labia's do NOT hang out which I heard are suppose to hang out unless you are under developed and I heard its more attractive when they hang, which mine do not :/
I fake it the best I can but i think my husband is getting depressed from years of knowing I am not truly responding right.... I think he is going to look elsewhere for a more normal women.....
Again any ideas why I am not responding right? Or anything? I know it's weird question but please....
WARNING MAY BE TMI!
Awkward to ask but is this a type f sexual dysfunction ?
For as long as I can remember I can NEVER directly touch my Clitoris...
if I do don't feel pleasure nor pain just a annoying unexplained sensation, What makes it so annoying is the full body spasms?
I will jerk around all over and look like a full its not just the legs but my back kinda like I am having a seizure...
It hurts my back and the feeling is scary and not pleasant.
I heard of oversensitivity but this sounds ridiculous!
I can touch ONE and only ONE spot around the area and get the BEST pleasure I can come close too..... but it's hard for my husband to find.... and it don't last long.
I don't think I ever had a orgasm and I am 26 had children.... I think I reached the age where I should have had a orgasm.
This odd clitoral response along with lack of orgasm has cause me to not enjoy sex too much.
I want to be able to have a orgasm or know what one feels like.... I want to be normal and be able to have some kind of foreplay.... the tongue don't do much IMO and he can't go near my clit :/
I got that one sex position which makes it semi feel like something.... but no O or extreme pleasure like people talk about. I hear other people say there are other things besides the clitoris but Idc about those I want to her any idea on what could be wrong. Another reason Idc about the "other" things is cause I tried ALOT and nothing really phases me except DEEP cervix impact or that one spot and NOTHING comes close to that one spot lol
And want my husband to be abel to give me the pleasure I feel like that spot he can never find after years of marriage or from sex in general or atleast an orgasm!
Anyone know what would cause the clitoris to respond this way? I heard of people talking about it not feeling pleasurable but to cause full body jerking and full body shakes that are painful and causes contractions like in the chest that make it hard and painful to breath? I mean i must be wired really wrong for that to happen?
Maybe its my Vagina in general? Its always been swollen like (NOT the inner hole or inside TMI) it's the outside like a puffy soft pillow and my inner labia's do NOT hang out which I heard are suppose to hang out unless you are under developed and I heard its more attractive when they hang, which mine do not :/
I fake it the best I can but i think my husband is getting depressed from years of knowing I am not truly responding right.... I think he is going to look elsewhere for a more normal women.....
Again any ideas why I am not responding right? Or anything? I know it's weird question but please....
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