Did he use a condom? It could be small tears from sex in general. Sometimes that happens if you are not wet enough.
I wish I would have had a better "1st" but turns out I didn't so no matter! Anyway, a small tear might not be a big deal but wear a condom!! Always always Always wear a condom! Lube might actually help bc u might have a problem w sex. My first time was very very painful, I tore, and ended up having to pack my self in ice.it turns out I have a "shy cervix" and sex just damn well hurts! Lol just b careful and use a condom and never do anything while intoxicated or that u aren't sure of! Also get to a family planning center like adagio health.. if ur gonna b sex u ally active get information on it maybe Birth control plus they give u condoms n will b able to tell u exactly what's up w that tear!
Thanks for all the advice!
I would just like to add, we are both well of age, I'm in my 20's and he's close in age as well. Besides not using a condom we were responsible about the situation.
You need to go to the hospital, if you can see it. I tore myself last year, its a huge deal. If you dont get medical attention you could get a nasty infection. I couldnt have vaginal sex for 6 months. Unless you want to majorly damage yourself, id suggest reframing from having sex
I can't see them not using a condom. I would actually report that if that were the case.